Repost of the Lightweight Creed _ Sep 27, 2010

MajorMom
on 9/27/10 8:45 am - VA
The Lightweight Creed
(Created and approved by members of the OH Lightweights Forum, Jan 2008)


I am a Lightweight. I am only one of many others like me. Together, we are a team. Though our journeys and choices may be different, we are bonded together by the commonality of being Lightweights and the strategies, successes and struggles that entails. It is this bond that defines this board.

I began my journey with a BMI of less than 45 and/or with less than 150 lbs excess weight. My lower BMI and excess weight does in no way make me less deserving of medical intervention, and I should not be made to feel inferior or guilty.

I qualified for WLS because I have co-morbidities, or because my medical history proves that my weight is diet and exercise resistant.

I have worked with my healthcare team to determine the best surgical option for me. I am confident that others have done so as well, so I will refrain from passing judgments. 

I will freely share the most accurate information I have, as well as my own personal journey and why I chose my surgery in an informative, educational and respectful way so that others may learn from my experiences. 

I respect the decisions of my fellow Lightweights, regardless of the surgery they chose and the nutritional/exercise plans they follow.

I will always promote health and a healthy lifestyle, whether physical or mental; and will respect alternate methods and views toward achieving good health, even if I do not espouse them personally.

I will always be sensitive, honest and respectful when contributing to discussions on this board and in my PMs. I will never flame, demean, invalidate or harass others for their questions or decisions. I will remember, at all times, the difficulties and pain I went through on my own journey and be considerate of others when discussing theirs.

I will always defend and unite with my fellow Lightweights against prejudice and hostility. 

I understand it is my responsibility to report offensive conduct to my fellow Lightweights, so that we may deal with offending parties as a united front to preserve the supportive and tolerant atmosphere of our board.

I understand that if my conduct becomes offensive, I will not be welcome to participate on this board any longer.

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
Join us on the
Lightweights Board!
DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

Stacey N.
on 9/27/10 8:56 am - Chesapeake, VA
I have never read this before, I love it!

HW-220 SW 205 4'11"
    
            
Pink-alicious 1
on 9/27/10 10:44 am - WI
I always love when you post this G. Thank you!!
HW233/SW233/CW124/GW120    
         
    
fatoldbat
on 9/27/10 10:17 pm
awesome!!!  count me in!!!
Blessings,  J
HW 250.4/SW 238/1ST GOAL 155/2ND GOAL 150/CW 143.6
    LW-Apple-Gold-Small.jpg image by PlicketyCat
jenncore
on 9/28/10 7:32 am - MA
Thanks for posting this!!! I wasn't sure if I would be considered a lightweight but apparently I am. My BMI is 37 and I have less than 150 to lose. My revision is coming up and now I have a place to check in with people in my situation!

Jenn
MajorMom
on 9/28/10 7:53 am - VA
Welcome! I'll put you on the pre-op list.

--gina

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
Join us on the
Lightweights Board!
DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

(deactivated member)
on 9/28/10 11:27 am - Hawkinsville, GA
Hey! Thank you for posting this. I thought "Lightweights" were the folks who had lost down to their goal weights or something. Well, I was/am 41.5. Do I "fit" in?
paranoidmother21
on 9/28/10 2:11 pm - Lake Zurich, IL
Georgia, I joined in here when my BMI was 43 - this is a VERY welcoming board!

So - Welcome!
Rebecca
Circumferential LBL, anchor TT, BL/BR, brachioplasty 12-16-10 Drs. Howard and Gutowski

Thigh lift 3-24-11, Drs. Howard and Gutowski again!
Height 5' 5".  Start point 254.  DH's goal: 154.  My guess: 144.  Insurance goal: 134.  Currently bouncing around 130-135.
      
garnet408
on 9/28/10 10:49 pm - Tampa , FL
I always wondered what made u a lightweight...Now i know that this should be home...
Thanks for posting this creed....
I started at 259 lbs and had my RNY surgery on 12-09-09..
Please count me in too....
Anna
MajorMom
on 9/29/10 2:20 am - VA
Welcome aboard!

--g

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
Join us on the
Lightweights Board!
DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

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