got my surgery date...

February 6th, 2006 is the day. I'm scared. I go one day to the next wondering if I am making the right choice...or if after the surgery I will be able to stick to the right way of eating. What if I go through all of this and gain my weight back? What would be the point? What if I screw up my "2nd chance"? Any thoughts or advise?

Dawn, Congratulations on getting your date!!!! I know you are scared and having a million thoughts going through your head, but everything is going to be just fine. Just try to keep positive thoughts in your head~You can do this! I won't lie to you though, the first month will be hell and you'll question if you should have done this or not, I did. But now at 3mths. post-op I am so happy I did this for me. Your outlook on eating will completely change-for the best, and you are going to be so proud of yourself!! If you need anything just let me know and I will be happy to help. Take Care! Big Hug~ Rachel

When I decided that I wanted my surg, I was not scared I knew this is what I wanted and needed. I am now 1 week post-op, and at first the days were filled with "woe to me" but it gets better everyday. But I want to be healthy. Your thoughts are normal where the 2nd chance thing goes, just rememeber this is a tool, just like any other tool you would use for weight loss, and regaining a healthy lifestyle. I sure whatever choices you make for you will lead you to happiness and health! Best of Luck!!! Kim