sexual appetite loss any one here with this problem?

hey everyone how are you guys?
well for me ahhh not all that but living I have been married for 13 yrs and its gotten to the point where I just dont care and do not have sexual desire dont get me wrong i love my husband have a 6 yrs beautiful daughter and had gastric bypass 1/31/08 i was 230 pounds now im
110 pounds since november of 2008  i had blood work done testostorone sorry if i spelled it wrong is fine ive done lots of reading and if its low then this occurs i would like medication i dont want to ruin my marriage for such stupidty.

thanks again

I'm there with ya.  Sometimes if you just put on the face and do it, you will get into it.  I find that having it makes you want it more, or at least able more.

Mind has gain that is all I think about now naybe it is just something i"M goingthrough

I'm the same way, but I have been like this for several years before banding.. I think mine is hormones or maybe it is being an "old married couple" now (going on 11 years).  It really never crosses my mind.... I'm like you my hormone levels all come back "normal."  Maybe it is peri-menopause???

Since I never think about it, it doesn't really bother me, but then I begin to wonder about DH....

I had this happen to me too.  I had my hormone levels checked and found that my progesterone levels were not in balance with my estrogen levels.  I now use a progesterone cream that I get from my local drug store.  My levels are slowly coming back up and balancing out.  It takes time, so hang in there and make sure your doctor is checking estrogen, progesterone and testosterone levels.  It will also help if your doctor checks your thyroid levels too, as these hormones can affect sex drive too if they are off.  Good luck to you!