Stress & Snacking ?

Hi 30's Buds- This last week, I noticed spikes in behavior with the kids that I service. Many of the kids were watching Virginia Tech footage 24/7 on the tv and the internet. 8 yrs ago at Columbine the kids didn't have camera phones to tape the actually shootings. I can't believe many of our teens watched the actual shootings on the internet. Did any of you or your kids experience any mild transference stress or traces of media anxiety? Any increase in stress eating or snacking? My inquiring mind wants to know!

Jenn C.- Child and Adolescent Counselor in AZ

p.s. I thought I shared an editorial that I wrote that was in the Arizona Republic on Saturday

The 'Why' of Va. Tech Killings Will go Unanswered by Jenn C , Child and Adolecent Counselor in Chandler, AZ Arizona Republic, Apr. 21, 2007           Like Cho Seung Hui, my father was a well-educated young man from a nice family when he went on a killing spree in the early 1980s. I was 9 years old when my father and stepmother, Michael Bear and Suzan Carson, were suspected of committing 12 homicides. When they confessed to three of these murders and were given life sentences, I was left with one question that would haunt me for decades:

          "Why?" When we are faced with senseless violence like the mass homicides at Virginia Tech or Columbine High School in Littleton, Colo., we are left with the same heavy question: "Why?" What I have learned in 25 years since homicide changed my life forever is that senseless violence is just that - senseless. We can never find reason or understanding in acts of great evil like spree killings and serial homicides.

          The question of "how" and "where" in the days to come will bring many productive answers that will increase campus security measures. The question of "who" will bring compassion and remembrance to the victims' families and will bring us a little more understanding about the shooter's pathology. Yet, I challenge us all to accept that the question of "why" will thankfully remain unanswered, and rightfully so. There will never be any justifiable reasons brought forth for the shootings at Virginia Tech. These 33 students and professors were taken in vain, but they will not be forgotten.

You know the sad part is Nothing we can do will stop this... I work On a University Campus and I am a firefighter.... The sad part is there will be more and none of us can stop it... The sad fact is now like when i was looked at for being obese and judged... I saw it happen with 911 to the Arabic community ..and I am now seeing it with the Oriental community...We are judged so much on our enviroment and not our Individualism...  They say you can why wasnt there speakers in the school to warn the kids ? I am dealing with this now at school If we put the speakers in do you tell the kids to evacuate or stay? Mass exit I believe would have double the killing but the news is asking why they kids werent warned... We are going to Install maybe 3000 locks on the inside of doors..... a 20.00 lock may have saved lifes??.... All the Debates, all the Policies and all the Politics .... anybody in a large public place can do the same thing....  You pick up the pieces and hope for the best... and ask Why.....