Before and after, to stri*****t to strip???
Hey guys ,
I been thinking about doing a before pic for my journey, Now ive seen some people have wanted to share EVERYTHING while some dont. Now my problem is ....... i make up for being fat by always being made up(HAIR DONE, NAILS,MAKEUP,CUTE CLOTHES ETC) so if i did end up doing a before in my undies or bathing suit, it wouldnt look like a before pic it would end up looking like fat porn! ive always felt like being fat is not an excuse to look a hot mess. Also you know what they say.. everything posted online will haunt you forever! SO maybe i can wear a fitted dress kinda spandex so you can see the body, but not all of it...
What did you do??? any suggestions???
I been thinking about doing a before pic for my journey, Now ive seen some people have wanted to share EVERYTHING while some dont. Now my problem is ....... i make up for being fat by always being made up(HAIR DONE, NAILS,MAKEUP,CUTE CLOTHES ETC) so if i did end up doing a before in my undies or bathing suit, it wouldnt look like a before pic it would end up looking like fat porn! ive always felt like being fat is not an excuse to look a hot mess. Also you know what they say.. everything posted online will haunt you forever! SO maybe i can wear a fitted dress kinda spandex so you can see the body, but not all of it...
What did you do??? any suggestions???
God grant me with the serenity to accept the things i cannot change ; Courage to change the things that i can ; and the wisdom to know the difference!!!
Honestly, I just posted pics of myself in my lounge around the house clothes and I had my hair up with no makeup. I just feel that its good to be made up and dressed nice but on this site we are all dealing with the same issues so I figured what the hell who gives a F**K! I look really bad in a couple of them because I was not presentable but its also a constant reminder of how much I NEED to change and a token of who I WAS and it reminds me to never forget where I came from. I am definitely NOT going to be one of those people who gets WLS and then keeps it a secret. I am going to be proud of my WLS and how many struggles I went through to get there...With that said I don't know when I will be comfortable enough with me being so new to the site to bare more skin in my pics. I'm pretty ballsy though so we shall see I guess 
Good luck in your decision and dont forget most of us here are not here to judge but to support you! 
Good luck in your decision and dont forget most of us here are not here to judge but to support you!
NOTHING tastes as GOOD as SKINNY FEELS...
Starting Pre-Op Weight: 305 Weight On Day of Surgery: 297
Thanks mama. I get the whole jot being judged on this site, but by putting pics on this site Ll ppl gotta do is Google our name and it will show all our pics. I normally am fixed up even T
At home so I will see what I come up with. Thanks for ur imput!
At home so I will see what I come up with. Thanks for ur imput!
God grant me with the serenity to accept the things i cannot change ; Courage to change the things that i can ; and the wisdom to know the difference!!!
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