Work Issues
Work, the joys of work! First of all I would like to state I really don't think I've changed personality wise, if anything, I feel more comfortable in my skin since my highest weight of 298, currently I'm 192.
Lately at work I've been hearing rumors coming from the same people I've had trouble with in the past. Saying that I think I'm better than everyone because I've lost weight!
Seriously, what's up with this? I'm in my own little world, doing my own little thing, and people seem to have an issue that I'm losing weight! It's messed up!
Has anyone had this issue with friends/family/coworkers?
It makes me want to scream!
Lately at work I've been hearing rumors coming from the same people I've had trouble with in the past. Saying that I think I'm better than everyone because I've lost weight!
Seriously, what's up with this? I'm in my own little world, doing my own little thing, and people seem to have an issue that I'm losing weight! It's messed up!
Has anyone had this issue with friends/family/coworkers?
It makes me want to scream!
I havet really delt with any one at work doing that to me. The only thing I have experienced recently is my sister saying wow your smaller than me. I know she is happy for me but the tone she uses just makes me feel like she is jelous? But I have to bru**** off. I did this for me so I can feel good about being me, not to be the smaller sister. I know she would never want to hurt my feelings but i just brush off her commnets.
I know co workers can be a huge pain but you have to hold your head high and shrug off their comments. They are wathcing you become more confiedent being you and they can be jelous of that but continue doing a good job they will get over it
I know co workers can be a huge pain but you have to hold your head high and shrug off their comments. They are wathcing you become more confiedent being you and they can be jelous of that but continue doing a good job they will get over it
i'm still in the pre-op stages so i haven't been able to experience this yet but if there's one thing i know, it's that people are envious. the people that are talking crap about you are the types that need to feel like they're better than other people to make themselves feel good. it's cruel. they get their self-worth from the misery of others and if i were you, i'd tell them to **** off, for lack of better words.