lets talk about SEX! 1 Year out!

hey ya'll!

i have to say sex 1 year out is completely better with 179 pounds off of me then it was when i was 350 pounds! omgo**** is!

but im only having one problem lately...

i went to a new gyno yesterday (we've been here a year and i finally found one i dig). and i told her my compliants. after sex i get period like cramps for hours sometimes! it doesnt make sense to me.

shes running some tests on me, but she feels too it has to do with losing weight so fast and my organs moving and shifting into place.

sex is amazzzzing nowadays, i hope we figure out this one snag!

anybody ever experiance or hear of anything like this?

thanks! <3am

 I agree, way better!   No complaints in that department. 

Biologically speaking, after a woman has an ****** the uterus will contract which can cause cramping but I'm thinking that if it's happening hours after the fact, that's probably something else. After re-reading this statement, I now feel like a complete nerd but I just can't help myself. :0)   

Hopefully it won't be anything complicated to fix!  Glad you found a gyno you like, it's sometimes a hit and miss situation to find someone who you really feel comfortable with.  

~Emily~

sometimes it is after an ******! that completey makes sense!! 

do you use birth control? i just got approved for mirena iud and have had bad experiances with b.c in the past so im kinda scared. last time w/ yaz i went hella crazy!

<3

Hey girlie!!

iam actually on the same boat, although im 7 month out today, sex is really painful to me, this all just started about 2 months ago, before that OMG it was the best!! so much better than before..but i just thought it had to do with my IUD, i havet actuall gone to the doc about it, but i will because i do get a period after i have sex, ( most of the time) and its really pianful like in my bladder?

 

i feel bad for my husband because i dont like to do it as often as he would like, ( he wants daily, i want 1 every 2-3 weeks..=( )

and its only because of the discomfort..=(

please let me kno if this is similar to what u are feeling,

 

take care..

 

 

 

yes simliar to what your describing and to emilys point right after i ****** if its a big one when i guesss my insides are contracting it happens! so weird. silly bodys readjusting!

i just got approved by insurance for my iud in 2 weeks. but im scared. did you get weird hormonally?

I truly hope you and your doctor are able to come up with a solution for your cramping! 

I had to say that yes, the sex is so much better, and the positions are now endless!  But I have a problem too, every, yes, every time we have sex I bleed.  Sometimes it is only enough so that my husband doesn't notice till we're done, and other times nothing happens right away, but I will start my period a day later even though I had it the week before.

Personally, I am just chalking it up to having lost weight rapidly, and my body is still trying to adjust.

i was talking to my sister today who is a  nurse and she agrees with us. rapid weight loss can cause alot of problems i guess we dont realize until they are happening! for me some of the weird stuff was totally not expected after all this.

sometimes im still in the mentality losing weight will solve all! but not always unfortunatley.

anyways ty for the friends req and YAY sex!

<3
am

LMAO. Yay Sex!

I agree sex is so much better than it was when I was 365 lbs....I have lost around 160lbs and in dec i was cramping and haveing pain after sex i went to the gyn and i found out that since i lost so much wt my body was no like a sponge I had a lot of space from where i had lost wt...I got some not to bad of news my uterus, bladder and rectom had fell because of all the wt lose...I had to have a total hysterctomy and alot of vaginal repair work done....Let me tell u hubby sure likes the new me.....