needing help to get back on track!!!!

so  im a little over 3 months out down 80 lbs still have 80 to go and im stuck. . .now im able to keep things down and im eating for the most part healthy but i slip . . .alot!!! basicly i have 2 small kids and they have snacks and so mommy has Snacks and they arent always so healthy. i dont eat any where close to what i use to eat or how much i use to eat. last week i started back with the protein shakes for breakfast and i was going to the gym everyday but its so easy for me to fall off track :(. . .please help!!!!!!!!
i just want to be healthy and get all this weight off otherwise i put my body through the hell of such a drastic surgery for NOTHING :(

THANKS. . .MUCH LOVE SARAH

 1th u need to relax. ur only 3 months out, and u already have lost 80 lbs thats beyond amazing! so  u most be doing something right... about falling off of track, u should be careful,  now that u have  like a full restriction  u can take advantage of it!! and relearn how to eat. i know ur only 3  months from ur old life of eating what u want and old bad habits, but ur gonna learn in no time to be confortable with ur new eating habits and gonna learn how to deal with that in the envirament u are i mean, kids, social dinners and stuff. so don´t worry, just follow ur plan and let ur tool work, then ur gonna have harder to make that tool work.
i know is hard to see the scale is not moving for a week or more, but is totaly normal. if u follow ur plan ur gonna lose the weight! so relax and ejoy the ride. this process can be very estressfull so don´t over think.  
hugs!

thank you mariana!!!!! i know im freaking out and i do need to relax i guess seeing how i look know and knowing how great i can look if i keep this up just frustrates me because i wanna be thin and healthy tomorrow lol. . .im just too impatient :)

but i have taken the right steps to get myself on track. . .i did some grocery shopping and bought nothing but healthy fresh food!!!!  i have my protein shake ready for breakfast in the morning and im ready to  go work out as well :)

thanks for the advice and you look amazing by the way!!!

love and hugs sarah

 I say don't try to leap back in both feet first.  To say that you are going back to the gym everyday is great but is it realistic?  Will you feel bad or dissapointed if you don't make it that often.  Set smaller goals like making sure to get the protein shake in everyday and maybe 4 days at the gym.  If you do more fantastic!  

Good luck!  It's so hard to stay on track but we have the knowledge and thats really the secret!

~Emily~

thank you as well emily!!!!! nobody said that this was going to be easy i think i assumed that getting the surgery was the hard part and the rest would just fall into place. i know i have to work on this every day for the rest of my life and thats what i want for myself and my family! i want nothing more then to be happy and healthy!!!!!

you also look amazing!!!!

love and hugs sarah

Are you food logging? If not I would start... sometimes seeing things in black and white can really help. The kids are having snacks so you are eating some... any clue of how many calories/fat/carbs/sugar etc in what you are eating? Some little things can add up.
Also... why not try to incorporate more healthy foods into the kids eating and kill two birds with one stone? Everybody wins :-) 
Maybe try prepacking some snacks for yourself... take time on sunday to container up snacks for you so when the kids snack you have your 'mommie snack'. You are only 3 months out and now is the time to work on the good habits you will use for the rest of your life. I eat 6-7 times a day and its good to get on a schedule and get use to it so it will be routine for you.. nothing to fall off track from if its just a part of your daily routine ya know?
Dont be too hard on yourself either... this is a learning process and it will take you time to get everything down... set small goals for yourself and work on them one at a time so youa re not overwhelmed. Instead of the gym every day aim to get at least 30 mins of exercise 3 times a week... once you can accomplish that then work your way up... you may also want to set a rewards system for yourself for some additional motivation (besides the scale)... like workout 3 times a week for 2 weeks and get a pedicure... 3 times a week for a month and get a new shirt... whatever motivates you!