Is there any one you want(ed) to see after the weight came/comes off??
I really need this surgery to avoid health problems in the future. Its about quality of life for me, but there is that vain part of me that cannot wait to get the weight off and feel pretty and look good.
When i was in high school there were some girls who used to torment me about my weight. I specifically remember a day going on a trip in band when these girls started screaming for everyone to get on the opposite side of the bus from where I was sitting because Lara the "whale" was about to tip the bus over.
Another thing was the guys I liked. One told me if he could put my personality into my twin sister's body he would have the "perfect woman" A part of me would like to see these people after the weight comes off so I can prance around with my head held high and tell them to f--- off! Any of you want to have or have you had this experience??
When i was in high school there were some girls who used to torment me about my weight. I specifically remember a day going on a trip in band when these girls started screaming for everyone to get on the opposite side of the bus from where I was sitting because Lara the "whale" was about to tip the bus over.
Another thing was the guys I liked. One told me if he could put my personality into my twin sister's body he would have the "perfect woman" A part of me would like to see these people after the weight comes off so I can prance around with my head held high and tell them to f--- off! Any of you want to have or have you had this experience??
OMG yes I do. I cant wait till I can walk by someone like that and have there jaw drop, and secretly give them the middle finger in my head. lol
If you want to get somewhere you have to know where you want to go and how to get there. Then never, never, never, give up!
HW/256 SW/248 CW/137 GW/140
*goal reached in 8 months*
* Proud Mommy to Parker Joseph 4/27/13 *
The only person I would really like see once I get to my goal weight would be my ex best friend. We were connected at the hip from 5th grade up until about 2 years ago when her now husband came between us. I was 16 when I first considered WLS and she was one of the first people I told. Well after I told her she was like "you don't need to do that you look fine, plus we can go work out together and you can lose the weight that way." Yes it was sweet of her to offer and we did start exercising but she was the only person who ever told me that I shouldn't go through with it and it makes me wonder why she didn't want me to get the surgery. Now that I have I want to show off once I reach goal and be like Look at me now!
oh yeah. there's a handful of people that I can't wait to do this to. mostly just guys that don't want to associate with the nerdy fat kid and the 1% of girls out there that take pleasure in rejecting guys in the most humiliating way possible.
actually, it's amazingly enjoyable to experience this with everyone you know, both the people that support you and otherwise. It's sort of like the grand finale of the makeover shows where everyone's jaw drops, except you get to experience it a few dozen times with one or two people. plus, I get to keep having these moments with the same people as I continue to lose weight. and for the people that don't exactly support me? well, I haven't really encountered any of these people yet, but I hope it generates the same reaction and gets them thinking, to put it nicely (honestly, I hope it destroys their reality - "David isn't fat? Is everything I know a lie?")
actually, it's amazingly enjoyable to experience this with everyone you know, both the people that support you and otherwise. It's sort of like the grand finale of the makeover shows where everyone's jaw drops, except you get to experience it a few dozen times with one or two people. plus, I get to keep having these moments with the same people as I continue to lose weight. and for the people that don't exactly support me? well, I haven't really encountered any of these people yet, but I hope it generates the same reaction and gets them thinking, to put it nicely (honestly, I hope it destroys their reality - "David isn't fat? Is everything I know a lie?")
"(honestly, I hope it destroys their reality - "David isn't fat? Is everything I know a lie?")"
I laughed at that... that's great.... I sort of imagine the same thing... "Crystal can actually be thin? I thought she was born that big!" If I have a 5 year HS reunion I'll probably find many people who knew me staring and I'll love it... Heck... just imagining the people from myspace who haven't seen me in years looking at the shrinking pictures of me online... great thoughts :)
I laughed at that... that's great.... I sort of imagine the same thing... "Crystal can actually be thin? I thought she was born that big!" If I have a 5 year HS reunion I'll probably find many people who knew me staring and I'll love it... Heck... just imagining the people from myspace who haven't seen me in years looking at the shrinking pictures of me online... great thoughts :)
MY ten year reunion is next year also...I can't wait to see some of the dudes I went to school with, I was friends with a lot of guys but no one would ever date me because I was the FAT girl. My best friend was the perfect Barbie doll girl and guys would talk to me just to be around her. I knew this was happening but I didn't care cause I liked the attention even though it was really for her and not me. ANYWAY...Barbie and I are still best friends...but after surgery I have no doubt I will look just as good as she did in highschool.
On June 21, 2009 at 3:27 PM Pacific Time, blanca G. wrote:
the ex for sure lol!! theres no way his new girl is cuter than me!! LOL
love this new found confidence!!
=)
If you want to get somewhere you have to know where you want to go and how to get there. Then never, never, never, give up!
HW/256 SW/248 CW/137 GW/140
*goal reached in 8 months*
* Proud Mommy to Parker Joseph 4/27/13 *