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It was brought to my attention today that I am losing weight... WTF DUH lol I know this... IDK how to deal with my mom right now. She yelled at me today for my face looking too thin! She is always trying to make me eat and I try to explain that I am not hungary and that I am taking my vits and doing my protein and that I'm eating just fine... no it isn't much but isn't that the point? It's not even like I am thin at all - sure I've dropped from a 32/34 to a 22/24 in the last 5 months but I am being as healthy as possible... She used to nag me for being fat and now she nags me for losing to fast? Honestly Sometimes Moms suck... no offense if you are a mom but I think that a lot of girls get their issues from their mothers. I know I did. I was made fun of as a kid but I don't remember 1/3 of what was said by any of my peers... what I do remember is all the hurtful things my mom has said over the last 23 years... IDK. I just needed to vent.
hahaha i hope my mom yelled me that i`m to thing!!! hahaha she thinks i`m still fat. so is a good thing your mom thinks that. do what you are doing. you are doinf fab. don´t let your mom get in to your nervs. just remember she is a mom and you are the most important thing 4 her so she is worried. hang in there
hugs
mariana.
hugs
mariana.
omg, you are so right! my step mom (real mom has been mia for years) has constantly had something to say about my "weight" problem....when i told her i was considering WLS he first statement to me was, "marla, you dont have to take the easy way, some hard work and less food youll lose the weight, dont be lazy"
so i totally know how you feel!! just be happy with you, love your mother, but he hell with her opinion!
Just try to let it roll off your back. My Dad was really supportive of me having the surgery but now if I eat ANYTHING I'm not supposed to he gives me crap about it. I'm like hello! I eat right most of the time, if I want to have this cracker it'll be okay! Just hang in there and to what you are supposed to do and just tell your mother you are following the doctors orders, if she argues with that ask her if she would like to talk to your doctor.
This may not sound like fun to you, but a good way to get her off your back is maybe to have her go into the doctor with you. So she can ask any questions or concerns, or at least HEAR first hand what your doctor has to say about your eating.
Once she hears the facts perhaps she'll think twice about giving you a hard time and come to terms with the fact that you are doing wonderfully!
Once she hears the facts perhaps she'll think twice about giving you a hard time and come to terms with the fact that you are doing wonderfully!