Where to begin

Okay.  So I am new here, as I already posted.  25, female from South Dakota.  RNY in Dec 06 and TT and hernia repair Jan. 08.  June 08 I will be newly divorced.  I have known for quite awhile that my relationship with my husband was done and now I am completely clueless.  I have never had to go out and meet men....sounds sad, but true.  The first guy I dated was the man I married and now I am so lost....crazy.  Anyway, if you have help for me...great...if not..it is more that fine...I basically needed to get my feelings out there!

Hey, sorry to hear about your relationship... Meeting men... get a hobby.  Serious!  There are so many different opportunies, just don't go looking... they'll find you.