The Date Went Great!!!

So...we ended up at the park (my favorite) instead of the movie which was even better because we really got to take the time to talk and start getting to know each other...He is great! Soft spoken and very southern down home boy (which i love!) At the end he was trying to shield me from the wind (so sweet) and started rubbing my back...i was talking and then totally lost my track of thought...i was so embarrassed and he just kept rubbing my back and laughing...I am going to watch a movie at his house tomorrow (wednesday) night and i cant wait to see him!! I think he was going to try to kiss me at the end and i just swooped up and gave him a hug...gotta leave some suspense right?? LOL  Michael-Is is ok if I don't want to play the "game" you know not calling first after the date so he can pursue me? I really don't want to play games with him...i genuinely like this guy just don't have any experience and really want to do what's best...your advice would be helpful..(and any other guy on here...LOL)  Thanks for caring...!!! 

~Flora

Congrats that's awesome!!! FWIW, my now-dh and I saw each other every single day for the first week we were "dating" so I don't think it's necessary to play games.  Ga,es are overrated.  Just be yourself.  It doesn't sound like he's the "game" type anyway.

Thanks Jennifer...yeah i dont think he is into "games" either...Thanks for the advice!!

Awwwwwwwwwwwwe - I'm happy for you!  Glad it went well. And Nah - no need for games.  We're all adults.  But...that doesn't mean you shouldn't have fun .  Enjoy your movie!

Games are for trendy kids in high school and wannabe players like guys who earn 30k/year and pretend to be millionares....As a guy, i hate games, and if he was rubbing your back then he is CLEARLY into you, so if you are too, then let him know, give him a sign back..and it doesn't neccessarily have to be a kiss if you don't want it to...

Sounds like it went great Flora...let us know how date #2 goes too! Linsey

Michael-Thanks for the inside scoop...LOL  Linsey-I will def. let ya'll know how tonight goes...Can't wait!!

Games suck.