OT: did a stupid thing while I was texting-need advice
I was trying to send a text message to a friend I havn't seen or talked to in a while. It basically said,"sorry I haven't talked to to u in a while. I've just been going through so much. I really miss you. Call me." Umm I accidently sent it to a guy I used to date. Well he called me, and now we are meeting each other tommorow. What do i tell this guy? I have no intrest in him at all, but he seemed so excited that I had texted. Hes a good guy, and i don't want to hurt him I'm just not into him.
Any advice?
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You need to call and confess BEFORE meeting this guy - do it asap. Just be like, hey I have to be honest, I meant to send that text to somebody else... when you called I was suprised and agreed to meet you but I just dont feel like thats a good idea.
Either way you are going to hurt his feelings, at least come out as the good person and let him down NOW and admit the truth, he may be upset initially but he will get over it.... better than meeting up with him and letting him have his hopes up etc then letting him down. Id be mad if I wasted my time meeting up.
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