Oye Chiahuahua

So.... I've met someone.  Someone has stolen my heart... and its only been like two weeks!  ACK! We talk daily... hourly...minutely via text.  We've seen each other practically daily since the "officialness".  I'm totally smitten. He's tall, blonde, handsome and totally a man, he he.  He's family orientated, disciplined, has a great work ethic and makes me feel special. I have this weird feeling he is going to be a major part of my life.  All the other guys (lol, sounds like I've had tons of experience, ha ha) were just flings... something to kill time while someone worth while came along.  He seems to be worth my time. I'm a firm believer of being myself from the beginning of anything- work, friendships, romantic relationships, etc... if I'm not me from the get go... how do I explain my craziness? he he!  He knows about the surgery.... seen my TT scars :)... knows I have been burned and smooshed to smithereens in the past... knows I want to teach... knows I'm a romantic, blah blah blah.  He knows it all and still isn't scared!  I've shown him my crazy side, my sensual side, my serious side and the stressed side.  Did I mention I've only known the guy for a few weeks? ha ha! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this.. but its just crazy/beautiful.  I am the most happy I've been in my life... not just because of the relationship-but because I'm happy with myself.  I quit chasing after someone else, who'd rather try and get some booty that be in a relationship, I've come to terms with my body's appearance and how I feel about myself, I am starting to love me, and I am back to school!  I still have issue about my appearance, as I believe others do... but for the most part, I'm thankful for what my body has done and I think that is showing. My mommy always told me to love me before someone else was going to... and she's totally right!  I hate it when she's always right, lol. But... I guess I just wanted to shout out to the rooftops without posting it on myspace.. he might see! ha ha... he doesn't need to go and get a big head now :)  He mentioned today how he'd be paying off his truck with this coming paycheck... I was like cool.  Then he told me, ya, that's $350 for us to do stuff... awwwww. He sends me random texts throughout the day filled with x;s and o's!!  OMG lol.  I think I can love again, if this keeps going, he he. Ok.. here's a question... since y'all sat there and read it all... he's mentioned before about moving in.  Before we were official... he'd talk about if things worked out, if I'd move in.  There are tons of benefits to moving in- closer to school, independence, him.... but how soon is too soon, ha ha!  I don't wanna have anyone feel weird ha ha!  If it were up to me and how I'm feeling, I'd move in tomorrow! he he!

I have no relationship experience to be throwing around advice, but go you! He sounds great.  How did you meet?

I think you better get out there, missy! We met online initially... but never talked online.  Just  via text :)

Hey!  Im Missy!  LOL!

My husband and I knew each other for four years (as friends) back in high-school...we parted ways after school, I moved to Hollywood, he went overseas in the air-force and didn't see each other again until we ran into each other at a party eight years later!! EVERYTHING about us had changed drastically...except our ability to fall right back into having a blast together!!! From that night on, we were never really ever apart!...Within a month he slipped two carats on my finger, We married three months later on Halloween and have loved every minute together since!!! I am so fortunate to have married my best friend....I'm glad it was sooner than later, but i would wait a lifetime for him if i had to... I think you know when someone is right for you...I don't think there's any time limit or status indicators....you will just know... Go with what your heart is telling you...be cautious....but have fun! xxxbecca

Geeze, girlie... you're story needs to be printed in a book! I'm fascinated by you!

lmao...thanks...I don't know why the Cliff's Notes always make it seem so much more exciting... But I'm content, and my bulldog thinks I walk on water.....that's it for fascinating though...lol xxxbecca

My boyfriend and I were dating almost a month before we moved in together. You should definetly date him for a WHILE before you move in with him becaue even if that person is over all the time it becomes something totally different when they actually live with you.  So I'm super happy for you that you found love, but in almost all relationships there is a 3 month honeymoon period, so at the ABSOLUTE minimum wait 3 months. If I were you however I would wait even longer than that.  You know all the stuff you like about him, so try and find some stuff that maybe bugs you about him and evaluate if you are okay with living with those flaws (which we all have) everyday, all day.

Jaci, I am so excited for you! You didn't tell me that he mentioned moving in together.. that's a HUGE wow!  Well, I personally think that only you can decide how "soon" is too soon. And if you feel like you need to turn to all of us.. Maybe it is too soon. Don't move in together just because of the other benefits.  Shannon and I dated for almost 4 years before we moved in together.. but there were other cir****tances playing into that. :-)   Again though...only you can decide when the right time is the  right time.    I am so happy that you're happy though!! Yayness!!!

LOL, I had to add a question to my ramblings!  ha ha ha.  Plus... I can't post this on myspace... someone might seeee it he he. Yay for the Yayness!