OT: question about the three words

fernypants
on 9/13/07 11:19 am - MD
Ok guys, I want opinions. When is it acceptable to say the three words in a relationship? Me and my bf have been dating for 11 weeks, exclusive for six. I want to tell him, because I really feel it. Not crazy lusty love (felt that earlier), well, I still feel a little bit that way, but I love him in that I-know-what-your-neurotic-things-are-and-I-still-dig-you kind of way. I am totally willing to say it without it being reciprocated because I'm not fishing for reasurance, I just want him to know how I feel about him, kind of like a gift. My hesitation is that I don't want him to think I'm crazy for "loving" him so soon. I don't want him to doubt that I love him. It seems like such a short period of time, but I am very sure that's what I'm feeling. Should I hold off, and for how long? What do you guys think?
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Sheesh S.
on 9/13/07 1:37 pm
Revision on 07/07/14
My husband told me he Loved me after 10 days. It was cute cuz he didnt want to say it soo soon but it came out, and I looked at him shocked and said thanks LOL THANKS!  I bet he felt terrible. But I came around after thinking about it.... Now we are married! Yay.  


Jennifer K.
on 9/13/07 10:16 pm - Phoenix , AZ
I would say to do what you feel in your heart. Its hard to say what you should or shouldnt do because we dont know the guy :-)

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(deactivated member)
on 9/13/07 11:41 pm - MN
Wow!
fernypants
on 9/14/07 12:09 am - MD
Oh, come on, Brock! You have to give me more than that! Your opinion is vital because you're ONE OF THEM! Btw, is that you? As in your avatar?
Cristie Ferny Pants 343/205/170
(deactivated member)
on 9/14/07 12:16 am - MN

What can I say?  You took up with another guy.  You broke my heart!

fernypants
on 9/14/07 12:20 am - MD
You were first on my list but you didn't make a move!!! I'll still make out with you though. =) Seriously, is that you in your avatar?
Cristie Ferny Pants 343/205/170
(deactivated member)
on 9/14/07 12:26 am - MN
That's the Fonz, from Happy Days!  seriously...how old are you?  13? PS...Making out is cool!
fernypants
on 9/14/07 12:32 am - MD
I never did Happy Days. I was to enamoured with Brady Bunch reruns. And yes, I'm 13. =)
Cristie Ferny Pants 343/205/170
(deactivated member)
on 9/14/07 12:34 am - MN
13, huh!?!? Sorry, 22 is as low as I'll go.   Well, 21 is old enough to take out for a drink.  And 18 is legal.  And there are a lot of hot 17 year olds.  But that's it.  That's as low as I'll go!
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