OT: question about the three words
Ok guys, I want opinions. When is it acceptable to say the three words in a relationship? Me and my bf have been dating for 11 weeks, exclusive for six. I want to tell him, because I really feel it. Not crazy lusty love (felt that earlier), well, I still feel a little bit that way, but I love him in that I-know-what-your-neurotic-things-are-and-I-still-dig-you kind of way. I am totally willing to say it without it being reciprocated because I'm not fishing for reasurance, I just want him to know how I feel about him, kind of like a gift. My hesitation is that I don't want him to think I'm crazy for "loving" him so soon. I don't want him to doubt that I love him. It seems like such a short period of time, but I am very sure that's what I'm feeling. Should I hold off, and for how long? What do you guys think?
Cristie Ferny Pants 343/205/170
I would say to do what you feel in your heart. Its hard to say what you should or shouldnt do because we dont know the guy :-)
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on 9/14/07 12:16 am - MN
on 9/14/07 12:16 am - MN
What can I say? You took up with another guy. You broke my heart!
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on 9/14/07 12:26 am - MN
on 9/14/07 12:26 am - MN
That's the Fonz, from Happy Days! seriously...how old are you? 13?
PS...Making out is cool!
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on 9/14/07 12:34 am - MN
on 9/14/07 12:34 am - MN
13, huh!?!?
Sorry, 22 is as low as I'll go.
Well, 21 is old enough to take out for a drink. And 18 is legal. And there are a lot of hot 17 year olds. But that's it. That's as low as I'll go!