OT: should I bring it up?

Shasta L.
on 9/13/07 3:09 pm, edited 9/14/07 5:51 am - CO
Hello, hey I need advice. There is a guy that I like.Well he is not into me, and I know it so i ahve tried to hide my feelings. Well this last weekend some friends (that included him) and I went out partying, and well I had a little too much to drink, and said some really embarrasing things to him. So now he knows. He has not brought it up or acted any diffrently toward me. The thing is I am really embarrased, and would like to avoid this guy, but that is really impossible. I don't know if I should bring it up to clear the air, or just let sleeping dogs lie?  Should I just pretend like nothing happened? I am feeling really humiliated right now. Oh well, I guess the one good thing to come out of this is that being so humiliated has gotten me over the crush . So anyways I could use some advice please.

Jennifer K.
on 9/13/07 10:15 pm - Phoenix , AZ

Eh.. most people dont take "drunk talk" too seriously... I usually just laugh it off... anybody who drinks has had those times where they had loose lips :-) If it will make you feel better to say something - then do it. I wouldnt really worry about the guy since he is acting like nothing happened. Honestly I dont think any cleaning of the air is needed.

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(deactivated member)
on 9/13/07 11:43 pm - MN
I know if it were me, I'd let it die and thank God the embarrassing things I said didn;t get rubbed in my face.
*~*Jaci *.
on 9/14/07 2:08 am - Central Valley, CA
I'm with everyone else sweetie... I know that I cannot drink when I have stuff weighing on my mind.  If I do... I will so confront the people involved lol.  So just let it go and be happy he's being so cool with it.  That's a keeper friend for sure!

*~*Jaci*~*

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Reese413
on 9/14/07 4:51 am - Houston, TX
i agree! just brush yo shouldas off, you were drunk and i think he probably knows that and won't bring it up! I say go about your life as normal!


<3 Reese

 

 

 

 

Mommy O.
on 9/14/07 3:07 pm

I think we've all been there and sure its embarrassing because you both know what you said but I dont think there is any need to bring it up. You were drunk and said some things .. you can always say you don't remember what happend that night if he does bring it up. Perfect moment to claim blackout! hehe ..

  

Shasta L.
on 9/14/07 3:11 pm, edited 9/14/07 3:12 pm - CO
Well actually I don't remember what happened that night. i was just told what happened from a friend who was also there. Yeah the more I think about it I agree with all of you. there is no reason at all to bring it up. I think that will just make things worse. Thanks for the advice everyone.

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