Dart Night Update (Longish)
So I dont know that there is really much to report. My friend and I went and had dinner then headed over to the bar they played out. We found 2 barstools at the table (actually kicked a couple guys from them) and watch them get there butt beat LOL I was nervous and when I am nervous I am shy. We had some idle chat as a group nothing really one on one. They were all ready to leave so Trav ( my friend BF) went to pay his bill well that left My friend (shan) me and Mike (the guy) she suddenly goes OH Trav and says I'll be right back (real smooth right) SOO we are sitting there not saying anything so I start by saying I think I understand the one game they were playing and he was kinda like sure you do and I was like no I think I do but the others well I am still clueless. So he said maybe I could play sometime and I told him I better start at Trav's house so I dont make an ass of myself in front of the bar and he was like why not Billy (Team member) makes an ass of him self all the time here~just as billy comes walking up so we chuckled about that and we all got up to leave. Shan gave him a hug before leaving (I was to chicken) and he gave her like a nuggy (she said he has never done that and thought it was a nervous reaction and she sensed he was nervous) he put his hand out for me but not like a hand shake (like you have your hand out for money kinda thing) so I put my hand in his and we did like a funky shake sorta just holding hands for a few seconds. WHATS UP WITH THAT?
So Shan and I get in the car and I said to her SEE I TOLD YOU HE WASNT INTO ME HE PRETTY MUCH IGNORED ME THE WHOLE NIGHT. She said no I caught him several times looking at you. She said when she went to the bar to talk to Trav she asked him what he thought and he said he thought that Mike may be interested. Shan said that he had much more ***** playing then he normally does when playing and that he talked more. I dont know still not seeing it. I know I caught him a couple times as well looking at me and he would throw his darts turn back to the table and I would catch him looking at me but well honestly that isnt good enough for me.
So as I said not much to report. I think if anything is going to happen it needs to be more of a personal setting since we all think he is shy and she felt that since all the guys were around he didnt want to be obvious. I still think she is reading into things.
OH WELL!
Barbara
OH YEAH AND HE INTRODUCED SHAN TO ONE OF THE BAR OWNERS BUT NOT ME AND AFTER ASKED ME WHAT MY NAME WAS AND I WAS LIKE UMMM! WELL THEY (ALL HIS FRIENDS) KNOW ME AS BOO (NICKNAME) AND HE ASKED WHAT MY REAL NAME WAS LOL (said he was going to introduce me but wasnt sure about introducing me as Boo)
EDIT AGAIN LOL Should I Just cut to the chase since she is still vibeing something and just tell her to give him my number then there is not cat and mouse chase you know what I mean
sounds like you still had a good dartnight. How good for you. I beat he gave you a good look in the eye when your hands touched. I still think he's into you.
I do think the phone number thingy is a really good idea but I would be too chicken for that. I guess I would have my frined spekt to her BF to kind of sound him out...... But that is only because I am such a scaredy-pants, giving him your number is the far more grown up version I guess.
I hope everything works out for you. I'll keep my fingers crossed.
Hugs,
Laura
Oh dont you worry I am a total scaredy pants LOL I would make my friend do it. LOL Unless he asked of course. I sent my friend the email and she thinks we should go again next week and see. She doesnt want to give him my number just yet cause she doesnt want him to think she is just trying to set something up. I dont know I am not into a chase. I like a nice easy catch or I get bored and give up. This next week is going to kill me on waiting but I will survive. Her BF thinks that he is interested but said she shouldnt push anything and that there is no rush and just let things happen. SO since it is her BF best friend he probably knows better than anyone. I will keep you guys posted if anything happens.
Barbara