Someone might be interested in me?? (Sorta Long)
You were warned it is long LOL I figured I would post it here as well and get some younger point of views! So Saturday night my best friend and her BF were having a cookout. I was not going to be able to go cause I had to work my second job but told her that I would call when I got out (9pm) and see if the party was still going (since she figured it would go till midnight). I was not tired when I got off so I gave her a call and head down. She was starting to clean up the food so I heated a plate up ate and helped her clean up. We are standing in the kitchen finishing things up when one of the guys (Big Mike) came in and said something to the tune of ~ What are you girls doing? Clean up can wait come and hang out. So we told him we would be out in a minute and he was like ok if not I’m coming back in. So we finished up went out and sat on the porch talking (Her, another chick, and me). They were playing darts and then went out back to smoke. So there we are the girls sitting around talking and he comes over to us and was like what is this the 8th grade dance where the girls are on one side and the boys are on the other side of the gym. So we all start talking and the 2 girls jump ship and he asked if I liked playing darts and I was saying that I have never played so I didn’t know. Well he then asked why I have never come up to watch them play darts on Tuesday. And so this whole discussion came about how I should feel comfortable to come up and watch them play darts even though I am friends with them through my Best Girl Friend. That any friends of theirs are friends of his kinda thing if that makes sense. So I told him Shan would be mad if I came up there and didn’t tell her so back she came. Anyways the point is Shan thinks that he wa****ting on me and by him just suddenly bringing up me coming to watch them play darts that he is into me and that was his way of saying hey we need to hang out. She was also watching his and my interaction together and since on several occasions his hand would rest on my leg or hand that he was really comfortable with me. He also made a comment to one of the guys that was acting stupid that he liked someone with more meat (guy was stick thin) SO anyways I told her she was just trying to play match maker and he wasn’t into me he was just being super nice and wanting everyone to feel included. (However I have seen him several times at other parties and he has never done this and supposedly about a month ago when I seen him he mention to the BF that I was looking really good) So on Tuesday since I am off I told her I would go to Dart night at the bar to see them and prove to her that she is wrong and if he was flirting that he better kick it up a notch LOL
So what do you guys think just from what I said?
I will fill you in on what happens
Barbara
<3 Reese
I guess the constant accidental (as if) touches and skims are a definate sign of atraction there. I know its hard to kind of get out in the open there because you make yourself very vulnerable indeed, but maybe he's worth the risk don't you think? You look fantastic and I wouldn't know why he should not be into you by the sound of things. I really hope this turns out wonderful for the two of you. The best of luck.
Laura
