OT my "love life" if anyone's interested.

I don't know if anyone cares or not but I just need to write this down and get it off my chest.... So I posted about the whole match.com thing and what do people do..when do they tell about surgery and such. So one guy IM'd me today and we chatted a bit and of course I sent him my pictures and he actually said I was CUTE!  WHAT?!?!  ME?!?!  hopefully he meant it! lol....of course I'm confident in so many aspects of my life except MEN!  So deep down I'm thinking...this could never work...there's always a piece of me thinking..he's just saying that to be nice and continuing the chatting to be nice.  He seemed really nice and funny. AGH!  I had to cut it short because my dog was running wild around the house and whining because she wanted to go to the dog park...When I say those magic words, dog park, she doesn't forget. So I IM'd him just now and just gave a quick..nice talking to ya type of thing...if ya want email me... It's in his court now...I'd love to hear from him but it's ok if not.   A part of me thinks it'd be easier to NOT hear from him any more because then I won't have to deal with wondering if he likes me because I'll be super freaking out when it gets to the time to meet face to face.  And of course a part of me hopes this really works and we hit it off...even as just friends is ok to me.  I'm not dying to have a boyfriend and get married....it's nice to have guys as "just friends" too.  I've had some awesome guy friends over the years and there's something different about having guy friends vs. girl friends.  Almost like there's a different level of caring with one of the opposite sex.  I love my girl friends but not the same as my guy friends...make sense?  I think I feel like I need something different...some guy in my life as a change that can be a good friend even if it's not a romantic relationship.  We'll see what happens! Thanks for listening! Malia

Well girl, I hope it works out for you... If hes a nice guy and likes you, Don't question it, Just go with theflow!..

I say ife he seems genuine, go for it! WHat do you have to lose?

 

:) good luck and keep us posted!