Mirror lieing?

So- there's this strange perception issue I have with mirrors. See, every time I glance at myself in a mirror I'm shocked at how big I look and I wonder to myself if that's really and truely the way other people see me. Do my clothes really fit so poorly? Am I that big? Because in my mind I don't see myself that way. In my mind's eye I see myself looking normal and healthy. Even though the truth hurts, I'm trying really hard to embrace it. Any support on this issue would be incredibly appreciated.

I have the same problem. the mirror lies to me too....so I try not to look at them that often.

I don't think the sight of myself should bother me so much. This only helps to reaffirm my decision for WLS. If there's a discrepency between what I feel inside and how others see me then I should work harder to close that gap. Thanks for the support, girl ;)

I hear ya sister. I am over a year out. I went from a 22/24 to a 10 and still feel huge and can't seem to see the same person everyone else sees. I often ask myself if maybe they are lieing to me when they say I look skinny. I just don't get it. pr-op I was the same way. Looking back at pictures I didn't realize how big I was. Although I did avoid mirrors and camras. We are hardest on our own person. So give yourself a break! I will try and do the same. Hugs, Chrissy

A break from myself would be nice...lol Thank you so much for your kind words. Sometimes I just can't believe how shocking the difference in perception can be. At least we're on the road to recovery! Hugs back, Sarah