Which is easier?

Karen, a 268# morbidly obese woman is also on my shoulder, and I thank you for reminding me that she is there and she must remain there if I am to be sucessful at who I am today. Without her, I could become the person that I was so unhappy to be. Thank you for putting things in perspective for me. This is something I never thought about, and you have opened my yes. Very very very much appreciated, Missy.