You just might be a grad ....
take responsibility for your successes and your challenges by making lifestyle changes (vs. momentary, read DIETING) that are reasonable, healthy, and comfortable for YOU.
You might not be a grad if you believe that your pouch is the only "tool" in the shed, and someone has taken away your free will, need to work hard, be an educated consumer...and so on and so on.
Karen
I found the phrase "take responsibility for your successes and challenges" to be very interesting. All too often, we have no idea why we are successful. And when we come up short, we are inclined to immerse ourselves in self-recriminations or absolve ourselves entirely, with a huge gulf between the two, either/or, black and white. We each have to understand what makes us work. Being informed by what is also going on around us, what worked for X is important, but it is no substitute for some self-awareness. A grad is someone who has learned to be honest within as well as without. As long as you stand on the shifting sands of a lie, you are in no position to go anywhere.
Nowhere Man/PH/jay