What is your goal today?

Well everybody I have something I need to say and please know that I am not talking about any of you.I just need to vent and you guy's are the only people I can talk to in private.Ok well today my goal is to not worrry about a Damn thing,to not care what anyone says or does,to stop helping people all the time,to stop people from taking advantage of me.And to not give two sh_t's about what anybody think's of me.Because for now on it is about what I want for my life and not what everyone else thinks I should do or act,and to find some real friend's,not fake one's that only come over when they need something,and then bi_ch to other people when you are not around all the time anymore because you have your own life and it doesn't revolve around them!!!Well sorry about this and Thanks for listening and I hope you all have a great day!!! Candi

You mean we have the same 'friends'??? WOW! Sucks, huh? And sadly takes a long time, lots of emotional drainage and time to discover they are either fair weather or foul weather friends. Ugh. (((HUGS)))

Alas, I have tried to enter the "selfish" phase of life, where I intentionally stop helping everyone else and stop worrying about others.... unfortunately I wasn't very successful at maintaining the role. You are, who you are. I know its hard to accept, cause folks like us get used and abused.... but in the end, we have to hope that there will be a reward. Somehow, somewhere, I hope you get rewarded for your efforts. Happy New Year, Karen G