Mon.Food For Thought

November 7th, Food Is Not Mother In the mind of a baby, food is synonymous with mother. As baby grows, the two concepts become differentiated, but perhaps never completely separted. We compulsive overeaters may still be confusing food with mother. Often we feel a great deal of hostility and resentment toward our mother-she did not give us enough love, or she gave us the wrong kind; she over-fed us, or she denied us what we needed. We may still be searching the refrigerator for the perfect mother! Isn't it about time to realize that she is not there? No matter what we eat, or how much, we cannot turn back the clock and again become part of our mother. Perhaps instead of being inadequate, our mother was such a gerat source of comfort and satisfaction that we do not want to face life without a substitute for her presence. Our Higher Power intends that we come to depend on Him even more than we once depended on our mother. He daily offers us a relationship of even greater love and closeness than the one between mother and child. To grow in that relationship requires abstinence from compulsive overeating. I trun over to You my relationship with my mother. Readings by Hazelden Meditation Series