Almost 2 years out and feel like a failure sometimes.

Angie H.
on 5/14/12 12:45 am, edited 6/12/12 4:11 am - Brooklet, GA
I am almost 2 years out from RNY. I originally lost about 65 lbs.. (yes, that is all) I was happy with the weight loss and felt 10X better than I had in a very long time.

The problem, I am almost 2 years out now and really don't eat badly but have gained about 20 lbs back. I can see myself going right back where I started from and it makes me very sad. I still don't eat much, I just find myself eating the "easy" things. Those "easy" things are not always the best choices.

I need advice. I felt like to begin with I didn't lose enough weight and now gaining back is even more depressing.

I started at 240 and lost down to 175, my goal was always 150 so I would still like to make it there. Please give me some advice. I have even wondered if the surgery was done the same on me because I have never had any problems too much eating afterwards. I almost wished I had.
jlmartin
on 5/14/12 1:49 am - Random Lake, WI
Did you ever notice people talk about what they eat almost immediately but fail to dicuss their excercise regimen?

Right now, start a food journal so you know what you are eating and can analyse the information for places to make adjustments.  Also start doing 30mins of cardio 5 times a week.




Betsy C.
on 5/14/12 4:03 am - Efland, NC
I sent you a private message about how I lost 60 lbs of regain.

Betsy

Lap RNY 5/7/03
I lost 50+ pounds of regained weight with hCG drops.

Gail M.
on 5/14/12 12:30 pm - Scranton, PA
Would you mind PM me the info.  I am 3 yrs and have gained 40 lbs back.  I seem to be able to eat and drink anything.  I went from 310 down to 155 and now I'm pushing 200.  Tried the protein again but it's not having the same effect.
Gail


 
 

Betsy C.
on 5/14/12 8:00 pm - Efland, NC
Email me at betsy at crittendens dot com and I'll send you the particulars.

Betsy

Lap RNY 5/7/03
I lost 50+ pounds of regained weight with hCG drops.

Susan M.
on 10/5/12 4:07 am - San Diego, CA
Hello Betsy, I did the HCG shots 25 years ago and lost 30 pounds ,  back then, thats all I needed to lose.  What i do remember about this was the very strict and bland 500 calorie diet. What did you eat with this to ensure the weight lose without fallin out.  I was a big fan of this back then and kept the weight off until a got pregnant four years later.  I have gained about 30 pounds back from my wls back in 2006. I never thought about this. Can you fill me in with which brand, is it the syntheic one and most importantly what did you eat?

Thanks
Susan
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Lori F.
on 9/14/12 7:27 pm

Could you send me the information as well?

Betsy C.
on 9/17/12 6:57 am - Efland, NC
Email me at betsy at crittendens dot com and I'll forward you the information.

Betsy

Lap RNY 5/7/03
I lost 50+ pounds of regained weight with hCG drops.

Not the Same Dawn
on 5/14/12 11:44 am - BEE EFF EEE, CA
Easy choices are easy, quick, non-thought..Planning ahead is a great thing to do..I do several things to be ready for those times when I wake up late, I'm in a rush..don't have the brain power to think much:

I make ahead protein waffles that I keep in the refrigerator and 1/4 of one fits in the toaster perfectly..a half an apple or some strawberries and sf pancake syrup..that's my breakfast of choice but I can  do quicker too.

hard boiled eggs..they're handy, they're quick and I make 5 of them on Sundays and keep them handy

1 oz chunks of cheese either from those 1 oz individual sticks or I cut up my own. 1 lb in half is 8 oz, 8 oz in half is 4 oz..in half in half..and then I keep slices of turkey breast deli meat and wrap those around the cheese (in a snack size zip lock bag)..

For lunches, I bake up chicken breasts, cool it and strip off the meat, packed in snack size ziplock bags measured to 4 ounces each and freeze 'em..I also cook up cabbage  or keep salad greens and such..I have also used the same technic with tilapia, roast beef, canned tuna, ham leftovers..

If I wake up late, I can grab a cup of salad greens, a 1 oz container of salad dressing, a frozen package of meat or can of tuna, a hard boiled egg and a cheese stick too. that's lunch and a snack..For breakfast I can grab a home made protein bar that is also frozen in a snack bag..I can be out the door and on my way in 15 minutes..no thought and EASY..
Yes, RNY worked for me but it also requires a lot of work from me!

Before Surgery: 214
Highest Weight: 240
Now: 125.6
Goal: 130
Gail M.
on 5/14/12 12:34 pm - Scranton, PA
They are great make ahead ideas.  It just doesn't seem like enough food but I'm going to try your ideas.  Thank you.


 
 

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