Drinking with Meals

stephaniejoy
on 11/3/09 11:03 am - Mont Belvieu, TX
I am actively trying to stop my weight loss. Someone on this site (not saying names) that is VERY active on here and is considered by many as a go to girl for information suggested I drink with my meals. I thought that would stretch out the stoma?

Stephanie H.
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Robin W.
on 11/3/09 9:54 pm - Franklin, OH

I would not drink with meals, instead I would just try to bump up the calories in a good way. Eat another snack during the day,  Have some nuts, a few slices of ham or turkey, have some carbs  PB and crackers,  Have you talked to your doc or nut?? Each will have their own way  to add calories in a good way.   At almost 6 years out I can't drink and eat at the same time it's just to uncomfortable.
Good Luck,
Robin

4'10" - 47 I'm short but not petite and I will weigh more than a 5th grader
Start weight 220 
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vitalady
on 11/5/09 9:33 am - Puyallup, WA
RNY on 10/05/94
Ditto. Eat some protein, it turns to muscle, not fat and prevents more muscle loss.

Remember that you get about 15 lbs back when it's all done, so where do you want to be when the bounceback comes?

I always say NEVER try to stop the wt loss. It'll stop on its own and when it turns, it scares you to death!

If I had stopped my loss, my permanent wt woulda hung around 130. I left it alone to wander about and it parked at 112, which is fine for my 5'1".

Michelle
RNY, distal, 10/5/94 

P.S.  My year + long absence has NOTHING to do with my WLS, or my type of WLS. See my profile.

jlmartin
on 11/3/09 10:15 pm - Random Lake, WI
Since wine is best paired with food, I now drink with some meals.  I don't think things would stretch unless you ate until you were stuffed and in pain.

When I was trying to keep my weight up, my favorite item was a daily Starbucks Frappucino (with whip).  I don't dump plus the high fat content helped slow the sugar absorption.  Once I stabilized, I just stopped drinking them.

I would try adding a fourth meal or something else you could give up if needed.  Also, stop eating light foods!  Switch to whole milk, full fat everything, etc.  This may seem obvious but it was hard for me to get into that mode of thinking.

Nancy H.
on 11/4/09 6:34 am - CA
I added a frozen banana every night, and I top it with peanut butter. It keeps my weight in place.

cajungirl
on 11/4/09 8:33 pm
Stephanie, the drinking won't stretch your stoma under normal cir****tances.  It will allow you to eat more food because it pushes the food through quicker.

I know of other WLS people that have been told this by their surgeon.  If it's an occassional thing you "should" be ok; my biggest concern when I see people doing this is that it becomes a habit that is hard to break later.

I'd suggest you try adding another higher-calorie snack first.  The banana and peanut butter someone else mentioned would be a good option. 

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shar S.
on 11/6/09 4:50 am - Buffalo Grove, IL
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Jennifer K.
on 11/12/09 5:24 am - Phoenix , AZ
My NUT suggested adding about 100 calories at a time (every 2 weeks I think, its been a while****il the weightloss stops. I went and got a metabolism test when I hit my goal weight and found to maintain my loss and not keep losing I had to eat 1400-1800 calories a day... I was eating 1000-1200 (maybe a little more certain days) It took me about 6 months to figure out how the heck to eat 1400 calories... I basically eat every 2 hours to get that much in.
I try and stay away from drinking and eating (except as mentioned above with some wines)... I dont want to take chances and IMO you can eat more when you drink.. or you get fuller quicker but then are hungrier sooner (depends on the food).

First visit to surgeon - 288 ~ bmi 45.1
2 week pre-op 252 ~ bmi 39.5
Total lost - 153 Since surgery - 117!
Goal weight - 155 (mine) 180 (surgeons)
Current weight - 135 (2020 I lost 10lbs due to dedicating myself to working out more and being in better shape)

1/14/2025 still maintaining 135 :-)

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