HELP!



cleopatra_nik wrote some great stuff about this kind of eating on the RNY board not long ago. She talked about not just behavioral changes, but taking the time to reflect and figure out what was behind her "nervous eating" behaviors.
also i know for me, once i start eating simple carbs and trigger foods like crunchy chip-like things, they set up their own biochemical urges. the only way to stop is to STOP. you really CANNOT eat just one and you have to stop justifying the first bite in your own mind. if you can find a way to moderate, fine, but that's not what you are doing, right? the only way you can end up snacking is if you eat the first one... so don't eat the first one. deep breathing, reaching out for support, finding distractions, going for a walk, stretching - wahtever - all ways to deal with cravings. but the most important way to minimize cravings is to make that internal commitment. the minute you get up on the fence, they will come roaring back to life.
RNY 6/16/09 - Last weighed 10/27/2011 weighed 151 lost 52 pounds 66% toward personal goal of 125, six pounds from unofficial unpretentious goal of 145lbs......basically very happy. boo-rah, RNY!
I limit my sugar and white carbs so that when I do have those things, I am super sensitive to them and dump...I also drink more than 8 glasses. I drink up to 16 glasses or 120 ounces..
Before Surgery: 214
Highest Weight: 240
Now: 125.6
Goal: 130

Hi Nana Nae,
Others have already posted good suggestions on how to jumpstart your loss again and combat the evil carb monster - I'm currently working hard to evict him myself and have been "white" de-carbing for over a week...
As to your questions on the protein coffee, I know there are probably a few variations, but here is mine - I do prefer my coffee light with creamer so this one works well for me...
BIG mug - mine is 14oz : add 3.5 oz OH yeah RTD ( I use both vanilla & choc )... other sweetener as is your preference ( I use splenda )...zap it in the micro 30 sec ( so it all stays HOT )...Then top the cup up with coffee from the pot...
The OH yeah has 55 cals, 2 fat, 1 carb and 8 prot for this amount, plain coffee cals are negligable so all together about 60-65 cals a cup and I feel better about drinking it with the added protein benefits...
BTW, I have also added Acheive One RTD as my creamer ( various flavors )...It is even lower in cals, but has less protein...
You did it once on an even grander scale, you can do it again - We both can...
Alesia : start 249 / surgeon's goal 138 / current 142