Very upset/discouraged

When you're coming back from a long trip down De Nile there's just no time to pause for Goober flotsam like this. My armchair analysis is that you're p.o.'ed about the regain and now this guy just piles on so it's become a big mushy pile of I-Hate-Me.  I *so* understand it but, like, regain is a big enough battle without giving a toss about the opinions of cyberGoobers who don't even know ya.  Free insight (and worth what you paid for it) ;-) BTW I think you look mahvelous and I wish I knew how to scuba dive.

I don't know what pictures you had on the singles website but the ones you have in your profile here are gorgeous.  I love the Avatar.  There are weird people out there and one was attracted to you (you can't hold that against him)(What he thinks is a "cute" come-on is a different story).  Be patient, there will be more and someone will win your heart deservingly.  Enjoy

Gorgeous, there's a reason this guy is single!!!  You look absolutely fabulous and that's the honest truth!!!! 

As far as what you're going to do about the 30 pound regain, that's up to you.  Some folks have regain and are comfortable where they land.  If you're not, you know what to do -- even after WLS it's all about calories in and calories out, modified by how much you exercise.  For me at 27+ months out, I make small adjustments in my day-to-day plan (100-150 calorie changes, up or down, depending on what's going on), then wait 3-4 weeks and see what's happening on the scale.  If you want it, you can do it.  And in the meantime, you'll still be smokin' hot

Kellie

Looks like your doing it!  You work out...You are adventurous and adorable and you shut out people in your life that make you feel bad about yourself!   What are you going to do?  Your doing doing it... I have no doubt that the right guy will come around. Anita PS...And BTW:  YOU are quite a catch! What guy wouldn't be lucky?

You look great! Don't look for validation from some online dork. He's probably sitting home in his Mom's basement, playing Wow.   One of the other boards I belong to is filled with young guys who constantly bash the appearance of almost any female who ventures on. It's not good if you don't have a thick skin. Just concentrate on you and love yourself! You will then attract people who can see all the positives.