Anyone 4 or more years out with a lapband?
I'm thinking one person in particular and yeah, she is downright nasty to some people and there is never an excuse for that. I didn't make her that way so I am not guilty. There are plenty of wonderful people on the DS forum but me calling a spade black isn't an attack just a fact! Sometimes when you are part of a group (please do not thing that I am say "the Renegades" - please! - I ain't startin' **** - ok!) so when you are part of something sometimes you can't know what it is like not to be part of it.
Scott you know I thought you and I were "cool". Obviously, we are not and don't need to be but as we both have agreed, we can't be liked by everyone. That doesn't mean I don't wish you well. I don't even wish things on people who I feel have done me wrong. Life has a way of frowning upon you on its own - ya know? And you write the book Scott - you get together with other DSers and tell your story from your perspective. You all have so much knowledge. Don't worry about someone stealing knowledge, share it. No one can have your experience - it is yours. No bariatric surgeon knows what is like to live specifically through what an individual has. Your knowledge is golden. I wouldn't care if someone took some of my words for a book; especially a book or an article that would be of benefit for someone who was experiencing a suffering that I had endured and conquered. I have infact submitted my experience with the Band for publishing. The credit that I've gotten for it has only been in my heart. I want someone to know that they are not alone. No apologies - been there, done that, and will do it again if deemed necessary. It isn't now. Don't know Lynda nor her story. I certainly would have contributed had I known of the necessity. Bless the "Light Side" for embracing her and making her Christmas Special. With that I am out of here. Good Day.
I'm thinking one person in particular and yeah, she is downright nasty to some people and there is never an excuse for that. I didn't make her that way so I am not guilty. There are plenty of wonderful people on the DS forum but me calling a spade black isn't an attack just a fact! Sometimes when you are part of a group (please do not thing that I am say "the Renegades" - please! - I ain't startin' **** - ok!) so when you are part of something sometimes you can't know what it is like not to be part of it.
Scott you know I thought you and I were "cool". Obviously, we are not and don't need to be but as we both have agreed, we can't be liked by everyone. That doesn't mean I don't wish you well. I don't even wish things on people who I feel have done me wrong. Life has a way of frowning upon you on its own - ya know? And you write the book Scott - you get together with other DSers and tell your story from your perspective. You all have so much knowledge. Don't worry about someone stealing knowledge, share it. No one can have your experience - it is yours. No bariatric surgeon knows what is like to live specifically through what an individual has. Your knowledge is golden. I wouldn't care if someone took some of my words for a book; especially a book or an article that would be of benefit for someone who was experiencing a suffering that I had endured and conquered. I have infact submitted my experience with the Band for publishing. The credit that I've gotten for it has only been in my heart. I want someone to know that they are not alone. No apologies - been there, done that, and will do it again if deemed necessary. It isn't now. Don't know Lynda nor her story. I certainly would have contributed had I known of the necessity. Bless the "Light Side" for embracing her and making her Christmas Special. With that I am out of here. Good Day.