THIS IS IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sewmama30
on 8/15/07 1:26 am - Frisco City, AL
I have no doubt that each and every one of us can do this, it's just the getting REALLY determined and not giving up before I even get started good that I have trouble with!  One lady said something about eating something bad during the day, and just eating whatever for the rest of the day because "I blew it", and I'll start again tomorrow........That is so me!!!!!  I eat too much or the wrong thing, I get upset with myself, I feel fatter than before, and I ultimately say to myself that tomorrow will be a fresh start, and I proceed to ruin that day.  How foolish of me!  And I know what I am doing, but I find a way to rationalize it in my sick head!!!  Anyway, enough self-bashing.  You all seem to be battling the same issues, in some way or another, that I am, and just reading your replies helps me to feel better even if I do "blow it" for the day, I know there is someone else out there who also blew it, and I can talk to them here and at least not feel alone in this horrible, life-long battle we are all fighting. Thank you all so much!!!
~Beth~
RNY 5/7/01
 
bjjantzen
on 8/15/07 3:48 am - Katy, TX
RNY on 03/17/06 with

I read this entire thread and I understand and sypothize with all of it because it is so much a big part of me too.  I fight the food monster everyday.  I have not given up my food addiction, I have not transfered it either.  I am still obsessed.  But I thought I would post a few of the things that help me.  I am only 17 months out so I am not quite as far as some of you, but so far i have been maintaining for 8 months.

1. I plan all of my meals in advance.  I pack my lunch and snacks everyday to bring to work and I eat on a schedule and I watch the clock, always looking forward to the next eating time.  But because I have thought out my daily intake I do not over indulge but my twice a week.  I also walk during my breaks at work.  So I get in another 30 minutes of just walking in addition to my gym workouts.

2. I pre pack all of my snacks in easy single serve containers.  Like if I am having a meat roll up I will throw it together and place it in a zip loc bags so I can just grab it from the fridge.  That way the good stuff is just as easy and accesable as the "bad" stuff. 3. I give myself 2 days a week to splurge.  I eat out every friday, and usualy one day on the weekend.  I don't make healthy choices usually, but I do choose in moderation and I do NOT bring home the left overs. 4. I did not cut anything out of my diet.  I have found with my previous failures that if I "give up" something I just want it more because I "can't" have it.  So i still eat carbs.  But because I never cut them out of my diet, they do not make me gain weight and I can control my intake of them much more easily.  ( this one is a HUGE mental thing for me and was a huge help in getting the weight off initially) I am planning on re-joining Weigh****chers.  I am at my goal, but have decided that I am going to go for my doctors goal which is another 10 pounds.  And I am having a hard time getting off of the maintanance eating mentality and back on the losing eating mentality.  So I will join WW again once I get paid.  They are who I used in conjuction with my WLS and they were what enabled me to keep all of the foods I loved in my diet and still lose weight.  So I am going to give them another shot.

Barbie
246/135
Pre/At Goal!

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