Hi Kourtney,
I have just read and then reread your post several times, and read what you have on your profile trying to understand your situation. It seems that you got pregant in less than six months from your RNY revision, right? So you never had the time to get used to how your were going to have to eat and exercise for the rest of your life before you had to focus on eating healthily for your pregancy. I don't know anything about a VBG and how the restriction feels with eating, but with RNY, especially over time, you can eat a much larger amount of food. It still always comes down to just because you CAN eat a lot of food, SHOULD you? With the RNY you still have be extremely careful with those food choices, and make sure they are healthy ones.
You also have to think about the weight that non-WLS women gain during their pregnancies, and how they have to struggle and work to get it off after the baby is born. It is hard for all women (except maybe for celebreties with their trainers). I remember the time after each of my daughters were born. I gained only a modest amount of weigh with each pregnancy, but put on about 50 pounds in the six months *after* they were born. Each time. Having a newborn is wonderful and exciting, but can also be stressful and the perfect time to snack all day long. I know I coped with learning how to raise a newborn by eating Hershey's kisses all day. My babies drank chocolate flavored breast milk. My point here is the weight loss after pregnancy is often difficult and RNY won't make it magically disappear.
You speak of wanting a sclerotherapy procedure, but how do you know you need one? I don't know of any way to determine stoma size without an endoscopy. There may be, I just don't know. This could be why your surgeon is not willing to recommend this to you, as he does not believe you need it. My surgeon told me last week that even if you do have sclerotherapy, it is not a permanent solution. He reminded me my RNY is a temporary tool to learn how to eat properly and exercise. I have been diagnosed with severe osteoarthritis in my knees, yet can still find ways to exercise. Running may be out of the question for you, but what about walking, putting your daughter in a stroller and going for a walk. Lifting weights at home or working with resistance bands. There are some excellent DVDs out there that you wouldn't even have to leave home to do. You could do them while your daughter slept.
These have not been the words you have wanted to hear. You can lose the weight again, but you will have to work for it. Go back to the basics of protein, low glycemic vegetables and fruits, lots of water, and exercise. I fully recommend getting the South Beach diet book, as I believe that is a healthy way to eat for the rest of your life. Do not eat sugar. Do not eat refined flours or grains. If you do this, you wil take back control of your eating and lose weight.
Best of luck to you, and enjoy every moment of that precious baby, she will grow up!
Debra M.