Major WOW!!! Moment! (4 me, anyway!)

Hi All, This may sound a bit frivolous, but I have to share! I had to go to my dr yesterday to sign some release forms for my upcoming plastic surgery consult.  I was sent to speak to Tom, who takes care of this.  From the moment I walked up, he was all smiles.  I felt holes burning in to me by the way he kept staring at me!  He was very attentive, very soft spoken, and so handsome!!! Dark brown hair, neatly groomed facial hair, which I love, just really good looking.   He had the forms I had to sign, and he brought them around the counter, stood thisclose to me, and helped me fill them out.  He was very flirtatious with me.  He would ask me questions, and just stare at me while I spoke.  The long, lingering type of stares.  DAMN!!!!  If I was single..... He asked me what the forms were for, and I told him for the plastic surgery consult....he said "Why do you need plastic surgery for?  You're beautiful!"  I melted right there.  I could feel myself blushing, and my face and neck getting hot.  I kept backing up just a step, and he would step closer to me.  I was so nervous!!! I thanked him. Anyway, it went like that til I was done, and I asked him his name.  He took my hand and shook it very nicely.  Ok, I don't know about any of you, but I have NEVER been flirted with quite like that before, not even by my husband!!  And since the weight loss, this is the first time.   I immediately felt guilty for enjoying that so much!  I even told my husband before he got out of his truck last night.  He just laughed, as he is good humored about that.  We are both very secure in our marriage that neither of us is the jealous type.  He said he just had to get used to it now!  He has always been good for my ego!! Anyways, I just had to share.  I don't really have any "girlfriends" to share with here at home, and I had to tell someone!! I go back in a week for an actual appt.  Now I am nervous to go!!! Have a great day!! Thanks for letting me share! Laura

you so crazy..................my wow moments are long gone....no one wants to wow my gross looking self....... well congrats to you...you hot!!!! love ya tammy

COME ON....SOMEONE ELSE HAD TO HAVE HAD A MOMENT LIKE THIS!!! LAURA

WOW....  I  can   just  imagine  you   smiling  a  big  smile!!!  I  am  sure  there  are  alot  of  us  that  can  relate  to  a  WOW  like  that  !!!   Just  think  thats  only  the  begining  of  many  WOW'S  to  come  and  you  deserve  everyone  of  them !!!!  :-)  Enjoy them!!!! 

DH and  I took our paperwork to the tax man yesterday.  The man hugged me twice--I mean really hugged me--in front of DH.  He is just an old man, but he never acted this way before.  DH and I got a good laugh out of it.  I am a 62 year old grandmother. I wear my tight jeans and heels these days.  I get 'looks' quite often.  Even the old men in our church make a big to do over me. I was an invisible woman when I was fat.  I guess I should be insulted that these men notice me now, but not before.  But I have decided to enjoy it.  I have earned. Good luck on your upcoming surgery.         

Good for you!!!! What an ego boost.  And this *before* your plastic surgery, better hold on tight after your ps. I keep waiting for one of these moments, but so far.....nothing.  I am a happily married 51 year old woman.  Been married for over 30 years, so perhaps there just aren't any "look at me" fumes coming off of me.  I feel I don't look too bad anymore, wearing size 8, down from a 32, certainly never had anyone looking at me in 30 years, other than my hubby.  I guess I had hoped for at least a second glance or little flirt from someone, even though there's nothing I would do about it.  Oh, well. Debra M.

Debra, some of the looks I get may be just people wondering what happened to the 'fat lady,' but they are still looking.  Sometimes I am embarassed when they tell me how much better I look.  I have always enjoyed trying to look good even when I was I big. I bet you are getting 'looks' and are just not noticing.  I am happily married, but I guess, I am human and enjoy getting a little attention.  My husband brags about me every chance he gets.  I enjoy knowing he is proud of me.     

I feel so guilty tho!  Because I enjoyed the hell out of it! Yeah, I also believe heavier women are invisible.   It sucks, but it is true.  Men hold the door for me now, to where before it would hit me in the ass! Or I would have to get it myself. My husband asked me just the other day if I resented people being nicer to me now than they were before.  I said no, that it is human nature.   Besides, getting mad about it won't change the past.  Anyway, I just wanted to post my WOW moment.  It was exciting, and it made me feel great! Laura

This is not frivolous, it's FABULOUS!! You enjoy EVERY moment of those "looks" girl. You have EARNED every one of them. Congrats on NOT having a jealous husband. The Bible says that Love is not jealous and it sounds like you and your husband are very much in love. I can understand being a bit nervous about a "return" visit. Just be sure and wear your wedding band and maybe "mention" your HUSBAND in front of  "mr. Handsome"!!! You go girl!!   I am "waiting" for one of those looks!! LOL   I am a 51 yr old single woman who would REALLY enjoy being "flirted" with on occasion!!! Hugs,     Pam

Hi Laura!  This kind of stuff IS fun, isn't it?  I'll admit, I'm a big flirt myself, and pretty much have always been that way.  It's just that the object(s) of my flirtations didn't always reciprocate, especially when I was fat!  LOL  Personally, I think a lot of guys could have been "into" me, but were afraid to "think outside the box" about what constitutes attractiveness and beauty (except for my dear hubby who married me at 240 pounds).  Anyway, since WLS and losing my weight I've been having a blast flirting with men, and I'm getting much better responses.  Hubby doesn't seem to mind as I know my boundaries, and won't cross over, but I sure have been enjoying myself more in social situations.  Have fun!!! Carlita