Am I over reacting

I don't think you're over reacting at all! Talk to him, you know how men and woman are wired differently. If you both can express your feelilngs, you both might get a better understanding of ea. other's viewpoint on the matter. hugs!

- Sometimes us guys have a rough time dealing with emotions, and we try to be tough and go along with life as if nothing happened. Even though he may be wanting to go to work it could be his way of coping with the situation and going along with daily life. Alot of us dont even have anyone and went to surgery with nobody but ourselves, at least when you get home there will be someone there.