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I know im not that far out im just over a month an half at the moment. but I know that fluid intake has been a huge struggle for me as well. I have had many spells where my mouth is so dry it feels like its coated in cardboard. Even though my urine is only usually darker in the morning i still know im not getting enough * i am also terrible at tracking my food/water intake* I have been trying different things. I just bought some pure lemon juice and some Monk Fruit in the raw. and have been trying to get thru making some lemon ade thru during the day. Some days are better then others. BUT on the days i do tend to get enough I personally have issues with Drinking to much at one time. I am terrified im going to stretch my pouch more by drinking to much then by eating to much witch will cause me to probly eat more as i wont feel satisfied as quickly or so ive been told.
I have tried setting an alarm pattern to drink water every 5-10 min or whatever but after an hr i just got super annoyed with it and ended up ignoring the alarm mrs calls it my selective hearing >
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Yes! The intuitive eating doesn't work at all for me. I struggled with head hunger vs stomach hunger directly after surgery. The acid was the worst. It's gotten better with the addition of nexium but it is a constant struggle for sure. Im definitely going to begin weighing my food and quit guesstimating. Thank you for your input!
I'm becoming more vigilant at tracking on MFP. I notice that a lot of you weigh your food. That is something I can begin to do as well. My menu consists of: premier protein rtd for breakfast, 5 crackers with a tbsp of pb for a snack, half of a black bean burger patty with half a slice of cheese for lunch, 48 oz of water somewhere throughout the day inching towards 64oz, chicken with sautéed spinach for dinner. The menu varies.
Thank you for the tip about miralax. I'll definitely try it today.
I agree with what the above posters said about starvation mode and logging/weighing/measuring food. I still do the latter at 4.5 years out, since I tend to underestimate my intake otherwise.
as far as your surgeon's office's advice: the dietitian at my surgeon's office doesn't like the fact I count calories - and she thinks I'm being too obsessive with measuring/weighing/etc my food and weighing myself every day. She preaches "intuitive eating", which it sounds like your office is pushing, too. Sorry....but "intuitive eating" is what got me up to 300+ lbs. My brain and body have a hard time distinguishing head hunger and true hunger. I still don't trust them. So I'm not going to switch over to "intuitive eating". I will continue to weigh and measure and closely monitor my weight. It's worked for me - so I"m going to keep doing it!
If you have stopped losing weight after four months, you need to find out what is wrong. On 500-600 calories a day, you would be losing two to three pounds a week. Something is not adding up.
I have a digital scale, measuring cups, measuring spoons, and even a plastic ruler in the kitchen. People might laugh when they see me measuring my cantaloupe for 1" cubes, but I know eight of those cubes equals 50 calories if I grab them later for a snack.
I track everything in the My Fitness Pal application. I know exactly how many calories, protein grams, fat grams, and carbs I consume.
There is such a thing as starvation mode, but it sets in at a very low weight. For a man, it would set in when his weight dropped to about 80 pounds. All of the fat has been used up. Ribs and other bones show prominently. That happens in severe anorexia or in forced starvation like in concentration camps in World War 2.
As long as your body has stored fat, it will burn that when there is a calorie deficiency. A smart scale will answer the question of whether you are retaining extra water. I have been surprised sometimes to find that when I thought my weight was up due to water, that the water content of my body was lower than usual.
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Are you positive that is how much you are eating? Do you weigh/measure/track everything? I'm asking because 9 out of 10 times most folks who say they are eating xyz amounts are really eating more when they start to track it.
What does your daily menu look like? How much fluids are you getting in each day? For constipation many on here take miralax which is less harsh than the MOM.
I thought the same thing! I feel like I should be eating at intervals at least. There have been times when I've eating twice a day with the meals being about 200 calories each. Thank you for the calculator. I'm going to check it out.
I'm eating between 500 calories to 600 at the most. I don't snack but if I'm to be honest, I'm constipated most days. I take milk of magnesia which is effective but harsh sometimes.
One of the hardest things for me post WLS was developing good habits for getting enough fluid. Here are some things that are helping me meet my goal of 2 litres per day.
I alternate hot and cold liquids. Although I know that hot fluids count toward the goal, I tended to avoid them early on because you have to sip them instead of gulping them the way you can with cold liquids. However, I later realised that I actually consume hot liquids at a faster rate! That's because reaching for the cup and taking a sip at regular intervals happens automatically, without my consciously having to think about it. Also, hot liquids don't make me feel "waterlogged" and "sloshy". Compare that with cold liquids, which I have to remind myself to keep drinking. Also, I measured my favourite mugs and was surprised to discover that they hold 500 ml, so that's a quarter of my daily requirement. So now I tend to alternate between hot and cold liquids to avoid boredom.
I start before breakfast. Just thinking about drinking 2 liters per day is intimidating for me. So (and this is brain dead obvious in hindsight), I focus instead of getting in 500 ml before each meal. Drinking 500 ml before breakfast was a game changer; getting a quarter of the way to my goal that early really inspires me to keep at it.
I turn some of my liquids into indulgent "snacks". To decaf coffee I add protein powder, cocoa, cinnamon, and almond flavouring for a decadent "latte". One of the highlights of my day, and I'm killing two birds with one stone: protein and liquids.
I prefer a little acidity in my water. Adding lemon juice is one way. Another thing I do is fill a bottle with water, put an herbal tea bag in it, and stick it in the fridge for a few hours. Effortless ice tea!
For cold liquids, I prefer to bottles with screw-on lids. I drink them more quickly and automatically. I think this is due to years of unconsciously sipping on diet sodas. Liquids in glasses tend to warm up, evaporate, and collect dust more quickly. I have tried using water bottles with flip top lids, but I have found it difficult to develop a habit of drinking automatically from them. I now use those steel double-walled vacuum bottles. They keep drinks cold/hot for ages, and somehow liquids just taste better. Easy to clean, and never develops a funky smell like plastic bottles do.
Use fluids as an appetite suppressant. When I feel "hungry" outside of mealtimes, the first thing I do is drink. That usually makes the "hunger" go away, at least for a while. If it comes back the second time, I have a snack.
If you skip breakfast, try to get in 1.5 litres of fluid before lunch. I'm generally not hungry for breakfast. In fact, I find that breakfast "wakes up" my appetite, so I usually skip it. Drinking most of my fluid before lunch accomplishes several things:
- All that fluid reduces my appetite.
- I've met 75% of my fluid requirements early in the day, so the rest of the day I just drink fluids as desired and am virtually guaranteed to meet my goal.
- If I drink a lot of fluid later in the day, I will have to wake up frequently to pee.
- Drinking that amount of fluid over a relatively short period of time really helps me avoid constipation.
on 12/8/19 12:29 pm
Starvation mode is pretty much a myth. As your body gets smaller, you need fewer calories to maintain your weight. If you were eating 1000 calories and losing weight at 250, 1000 will have a smaller deficit when your body is at 200ish.
How many calories are you eating in a day? Many folks find that they have to stick to between 600 - 800 calories during the first year to lose weight, though stalls do happen even at that level.
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