Post op emotional rollercoaster

Citizen Kim
on 4/3/17 2:05 pm, edited 4/3/17 7:05 am - Castle Rock, CO

I'm sure you meant congratulations on losing 229lbs, because otherwise you would be a complete ****. Losing that amount of weight is to be admired - especially as she's done it without an eating disorder.

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GeekMonster, Insolent Hag
on 4/3/17 2:14 pm - CA
VSG on 12/19/13

Yeah, that was kind of nasty, wasn't it? Could be either a personality disorder or just hormone dumping. I'd hate to think she's not here for the "right reasons."

Thanks for pointing it out, Kim

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Citizen Kim
on 4/3/17 2:19 pm, edited 4/3/17 7:19 am - Castle Rock, CO

Somebody who is not even 2 weeks out is not qualified to snark on somebody, no, anybody's weightloss! Someone needs to stay in their lane with their pizza eating self.

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Crem_de_la_crem
on 4/3/17 5:11 pm
VSG on 03/21/17

Ok Bully I will stay in my lane for everyone *****ally believes I was trying to be mean about her weight loss smh again I will say I really genuinely was happy for her because she's only 40 pounds away from her goal smh in now way did I mean it in a negative way n now all of you people are deciding to be really nasty and bully me. Instead of asking what I ment by it if it was unclear I'm happy for her

Citizen Kim
on 4/3/17 6:50 pm, edited 4/3/17 11:50 am - Castle Rock, CO

So, you make a super snarky remark about someone's weightloss and *I'm* the bully?

Bless your heart! You're all kinds of special.

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

Crem_de_la_crem
on 4/3/17 6:56 pm
VSG on 03/21/17

Honestly I'm not here for all this negativity it was a misunderstanding and I have said several times IM PROUD OF HER WEIGHT LOSS idk why your continuing to say I was trying to be sarcastic I had good intentions that turned into something else it's a misunderstanding. If all of you feel the same way I must be coming off offensive and that was never my intent. I'll just leave it at that

CC C.
on 4/3/17 7:08 pm

I see you joined this week and just wanted to welcome you and say I read your comment as sincere. Know that the early posters to the question really do have your best interest at heart in that having seen people make similar missteps early on, they're trying to keep you from going down the same road. Tone is so tricky to read in writing. Please stick around, there is a lot to learn here to help us all be successful!

Crem_de_la_crem
on 4/3/17 8:38 pm
VSG on 03/21/17

Thank you so much for saying that I really needed to hear that because I was going to delete my account arguing or negativity is not why I joined. I'm human and I make mistakes. I really just wanted to empathize with her. If that was their intent then I welcome it and I will try to see where they are coming from. They weren't wrong about the pizza I know it was wrong but I'm learning and doing my best to get it right. Tone is definitely hard to read through messaging I really believe they believe I was trying to be sarcastic when I wasn't. So all I can try to do is explain and hope we can move forward because I did come here for support and advice I really appreciate you welcoming me thank you so much.

Crem_de_la_crem
on 4/3/17 5:05 pm
VSG on 03/21/17

Are you kidding me she's 40 pounds away from her goal I really ment I was happy for her in no way was I trying to be mean smh it's really disgusting that some one tries to be supportive and people take to criticism and talking about calling bs because I shared that I went through the same thing I'm sorry the both of u feel that way. I'm not here to argue or go back and forth negatively I'll leave that for y'all. Again congratulations on ur journey.

CerealKiller Kat71
on 4/3/17 2:25 pm
RNY on 12/31/13
On April 3, 2017 at 8:35 PM Pacific Time, Crem_de_la_crem wrote:

Hopefully while doing so you will find a better approach and Im pretty sure people will welcome your help.Congrats on being 40 pounds away from Goal

Seriously? Are you actually throwing jabs at someone who has lost over 200 pounds?

Fat Shaming on an obesity website is a particular low -- hormone dumping or not.

Where's your stats? -- because eating pizza at two weeks out -- I have a feeling you may also be eating your words in the future.

"What you eat in private, you wear in public." --- Kat

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