Keeping your surgery a secret?
I only told a few people, my family and 1 friend. I didn't tell the people I work with because I remember how negative they were when another person at work had a gastric bypass. I'm glad though that I told my friend. She was concerned but supportive. I think I would tell a friend of 20 years. You might just inspire her, and if not and she cuts ties with you,she wasn't really much of a friend
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5'2.5" Surgery date/ 12-02-15 Dr.Valentine Boise ID
Highest:289 SW/212 CW 122
Goal/125-130
Goal reached at 10 months