Why I hate being overweight
I started this journey in July 2014 and had surgery in January. I'm already seeing progress but sometimes I get a little depressed by not being able to eat what I want. During those times, I think about all of the reasons why I hate being overweight. Here are a few:
1. Shopping - Going clothes shopping at a size 22/24 is a daunting task. The clothes don't fit right and I don't feel sexy in my clothes.
2. Chairs with arms - enough said!
3. Bending to pick up items on the floor - Oh how I hate to drop something on the floor. I have to figure out a strategy to pick it up without hurting myself.
4. Doing Chores - I am a total neat freak, but I get winded going up and down the stairs to wash my clothes.
5. Putting on pantyhose - First of all, I rarely wear pantyhose, but when I do, it's an olympic sport putting them on.
6. Not being able to ride roller-coasters - I absolutely love riding roller-coasters. But the last time I went to Kings Dominion, four workers pushed on me so hard to try to get the lap bar to snap. Ultimately, I got off of the ride. It was so embarrassing.
Can you add to this list?
I am looking forward to my healthy, happier lifestyle with the sleeve.
Why I hated being overweight-
I say being because I am now in a normal weight/size range for my height. Sometimes I still feel overweight and have to mentally talk myself out of it.
1. Looking in the mirror and seeing a fat face(or what I perceived as fat)
2. Being called full-figured.
3. Sleep apnea, hypertension, high triglycerides, pre-diabetic
4. Always alternating between dieting and being completely out of control
5. Not loving myself as I was and always waiting for life to start after I lost weight.
6. Not having any energy/desire to exercise. This has changed for sure!
Good luck on your journey!
I can relate to many things mentioned already. In addition, I hate being overweight because:
-The seatbelt being so tight on the airplane, that I put a sweatshirt on my lap so the flight attendant won't notice I am not wearing it.
-Sleep Apnea, High Cholesterol, Pre-Diabetic
-Not having the energy to play with my grandchilren without tiring quickly.
-My grandkids having a fat grandma (When my granddaughter was 3 she very matter-of-factly told me I had a big bottom.)
-Not being able to walk very far when on vacations, especially when in beautiful Hawaii last year.
-Bumping into things all the time because I forget that I am obese, even though I have been so for the last 20 years.
-Not being able to sit on a swing to swing with my grankids.
-Wearing stretch waist pants.
5'7" HW 256 (1/6/2014) SW 236.2 (VSG: 1/26/2015) CW 165.5 (01/10/2016) Total Weight Lost 90.5
Pre-Op: -19.8; Month 1: -19; Month 2: -12.7; Month 3: -9.9; Month 4: -7.2; Month 5: -6.4; Month 6: -2.8; Month 7: -3.7; Month 8: -4.2; Month 9: -0.6; Month 10: -2.1; Month 11: -0 Month 12: -2.1
GOALS: BMI Normal = 159 (6.5 to go); 100 LBs Lost = 156 (9.5 to go); FINAL GOAL: 139?? (26.5 to go)
- the naked truth that my relationship with food is skewed and needs constant attention.
- the work it takes to not become obese again
- being resentful of those who don't have to watch what they eat (e.g. my partner! )
- that staying within an acceptable weight range takes a lot of work. Being obese was pretty damn easy comparatively.
Thanks for posting this - I need to be reminded. Some of the things I hate about being overweight:
-problems with mobility
-hypertension, sleep apnea, diabetes, high cholesterol and triglycerides
-clothes aren't attractive and/or no longer fit, no matter what I choose
-not being able to take dance classes
-not being able to participate in most activities with my kids - sledding, tubing, amusement park rides, going on field trips that require a lot of walking
-running away from cameras
-feeling 'less than'
-sweating all of the time
-always focussing on food (still an issue sometimes, but not nearly as much)
-not being able to easily take care of personal hygiene and grooming
-not wanting to look at myself in mirrors
-being certain of an early death
Just to name a few....
Knowing that people are judging me and feeling sorry for me. That's the worst for me.
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)
Reasons I hate being overweight:
1. "Help I've fallen and I can't get up"..... That's me!
2. Watching everyone else enjoy activities that I would love to do but feeling I am too big to participate.
3. Avoiding camera's pointed in my direction. Finding people to stand in front of me if I can't get out of being in the photo.