Dating - Anxiety!

Kelly Jean
on 9/18/14 7:45 am, edited 9/18/14 7:46 am
VSG on 04/08/14

Stacy.  Your a catch!!! And I bet you anything this guy is just as scared and nervous as you are !!! Just sit back and enjoy the ride!!! Your a beautiful woman inside and out!!! We all know it and apperantly so does he!!!! :-)

♡ Kelly

  

BurberryPlaid
on 9/18/14 10:10 am - MA
VSG on 09/29/14

Good luck & have fun!!! 

Lizzy67
on 9/18/14 10:20 am
VSG on 09/15/14

 I was looking at your pictures an I think this guy would be really stupid to now take you seriously, if it is meant to be it will happen.  You look great and I enjoy  reading your posts.  Good Luck! 

VSG Surgery date scheduled !!  9-15-14   Mexicali Bariatric Center Dr Wilhelmy

    
Laura in Texas
on 9/19/14 7:20 am

Update??? How was your date???

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Stacy_WLS
on 9/19/14 7:28 am

It was great :)

 

But now we are in that kind of in between time -- it's too early to call it a relationship and feel too strongly.  He is a bit guarded emotionally.  I hope he is feeling the same way b/c I am falling for him bad.  I'll be really sad if it doesn't work out.  My sister just keeps telling me to enjoy this time (being single), but I'm so ready to be in love.

VSG: 12/12/13, LBL, small TL, BL/BA: 11/7/14 Twins 12/9/18 HW after Twins 260. 5'10 37 years old - Stacy_WLS (MFP)

Laura in Texas
on 9/19/14 12:12 pm

I'm glad it went well!! I hope it works out, but if it doesn't, you will be OK. Men are strange creatures. They can be hard to figure out. 

This is my favorite quote about love from Grey's Anatomy: ‎"It always feels like there is just one person in this world to love and then you find somebody else and it just seems crazy that you were ever worried in the first place" Lexie Grey

I agree with your sister. For now, just have fun and enjoy the ride.

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Stacy_WLS
on 9/20/14 8:45 am

This is so true -- thank you! 

 

I know that I have been through it before.  All is well -- either we are right for each other or we aren't.  It's kind of fun figuring that out.

VSG: 12/12/13, LBL, small TL, BL/BA: 11/7/14 Twins 12/9/18 HW after Twins 260. 5'10 37 years old - Stacy_WLS (MFP)

trinoc
on 9/20/14 10:30 am - TN
VSG on 01/14/14

You didn't ask but I'm throwing it out there anyway.  My biggest advice is don't let your desire to be "in love" let you think that every butterfly is "the love".  If you're too eager to be in love you'll make poor choices to get there.  Let the dating take you where it will, when it will, and don't try and make it happen just because you're finished with being alone. 

Tricia

 M1 -26, M2 -14, M3 -14, M4 -12, M5 -12, M6 -11, M7 -10, M8 -12, M9 -5, Goal Reached 9 months and 14 days

    

    

    
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