Do you get sick of showering and brushing your teeth?
Anyway, I'm glad most people here have their heads screwed on straight today and picked up your message without automatically thinking of BO and bad breath! This is a very insightful message; thanks for sharing it with us. I understand why our VSG vets keep retuning to this forum. There's always something new to learn, and it helps keep you honest and not complacent.
I knew, when I started this journey, almost 2 years ago, that it was for life. During the 6 months leading up to my surgery, I went through a process of getting into a routine and a mindset that would sustain me over the long term. Having 85% of a healthy organ removed was a drastic step, and I knew that there was no place left to go after that. Mom, you are so right that we have to look at what we need to do to maintain weight loss as part of a daily routine. Weighing myself every day, after my shower, is now second nature, just as brushing my teeth, taking my vitamins, getting dressed, etc. are. Eating a certain way has also become part of my routine, so it no longer feels like I'm doing something special - it's just what I do.
So easy to forget this early on, when the weight is coming off without as much effort. But as you daily walk this journey, you realize it is about renewing your mind daily and committing to a life of taking care of this miraculous body God gave us. Each battle won is a victory. So plan a victory every day. Plan to win every day. Some days you may not have total success, but at the end of the day look and count one victory or find a way to have a victory the next day. Choice by choice, victory by victory, habit by habit, we can reach our goal. It is never too late to renew our mind.
Thanks for posting!
I am rethinking my habit of not writing everything down as I should. If I want this, I have to be honest with myself first and that means keeping an honest food journal, even if I go over in calories. Lying to myself, where has that got me in the past? That's right, it took me down a road of self loathing and drowning myself in food and telling myself I could have nothing different. Well, freedom has come and it tastes sweeter than anything I will ever put in my mouth. If I do not want to track it, I should not eat it. :O)
“Not many of us are living at our best. We linger in the lowlands because we are afraid to climb the mountains. The steepness and ruggedness dismay us, and so we stay in the misty valleys and do not learn the mystery of the hills. We do not know what we lose in our self indulgence. What glory awaits us if only we had the courage for the mountain climb. What blessing we should find if only we would move to the uplands of God.? JRM
I use a smartphone app, which makes it easier. A little trick that's worked for me is to always log it before I eat it. That tiny minute to reconsider has saved me many a time.
Highest weight: 335 lbs, BMI 50.9
Pre-op weight: 319 lbs, BMI 48.5
Current range: 140-144, BMI 21.3 - 22
175+ lbs lost, maintaining since February 2012
I am totally old school and write it down. I do not have a smart phone or internet at home. I will see what I can download for my itouch, but the last time I tried it was too old of a version and the app required web access to use. Will keep looking. Thanks for the tip.
“Not many of us are living at our best. We linger in the lowlands because we are afraid to climb the mountains. The steepness and ruggedness dismay us, and so we stay in the misty valleys and do not learn the mystery of the hills. We do not know what we lose in our self indulgence. What glory awaits us if only we had the courage for the mountain climb. What blessing we should find if only we would move to the uplands of God.? JRM
I use a resident program called Nutribase (dietsoftware.com, and they can send you a disc!) that we found when my wife and I started this journey 9-10 years ago and the online programs of the day like Fitday didn't satisfy our needs. Nutribase is a slightly lightened version of software that is marketed to professional dieticians (lightened mainly by not being able to handle many clients) but has the full complement of nutritional info from USDA and Canadian gov sources as well as a lot of commercial and restaurant data. It's worth a look if you want to step up from old school pencil & paper to middle school PC based but don't want to, or can't use, a web based system.
1st support group/seminar - 8/03 (has it been that long?)
Wife's DS - 5/05 w Dr. Robert Rabkin VSG on 5/9/11 by Dr. John Rabkin
Thanks for the idea. More than anything, I just need to make writing things down a habit. Takes just seconds, I just decide not to do it at times. Enjoy your day!
“Not many of us are living at our best. We linger in the lowlands because we are afraid to climb the mountains. The steepness and ruggedness dismay us, and so we stay in the misty valleys and do not learn the mystery of the hills. We do not know what we lose in our self indulgence. What glory awaits us if only we had the courage for the mountain climb. What blessing we should find if only we would move to the uplands of God.? JRM