Was This Statement Wrong?

jacreasy
on 6/19/12 11:57 pm, edited 6/19/12 11:58 pm
VSG on 04/23/12

I made a comment yesterday on a post regarding a NEWS ARTICLE... My comment is at the bottom and I received an email form OH, not sure why b/c what I said wasn't bad... DO YOU THINK MY COMMENT WAS INAPPROPRITE?? The article was basically saying that Pre-Op patients should be warned about becoming an alcoholic after having WLS That the man in the article was an alcoholic and he was blaming it on WLS... REALLY

The moderator left these comments:

Personal attacks are not allowed pursuant to our Terms Of Services. Personal attacks include, but are not limited to, name-calling, being hateful, threatening, harassing, insulting, malicious or attacking a member personally rather than challenging a member's views or position in an appropriate and respectful way. Please keep comments on the subject, not on the person. We appreciate your anticipated cooperation as an Obesity Help member. Thank you, Member Services Your post is currently unapproved.

My message is currently:
I think that's BS... He has other issues. Having WLS doesn't turn you into a Alcoholic. I never drink but maybe once or twice a year, not planning to start now lol He just has issues that he probably never dealt with and he turned to drinking instead of food.


My Response to OH:
I received this email regarding a post that I made a comment too regarding a NEWS ARTICLE.. I did not say anything that was threatening, harassing, insulting, malicious or attacking a member personally rather than challenging a member's views or position in an appropriate and respectful way. I DO NOT APPRECIATE WHOM EVER SENT OUT THE EMAIL TO ME. THAT WAS MY OPINION AND IF SOMEONE DIDN'T LIKE MY COMMENT THEY NEED TO MOVE ON. IT WASN'T PERSONAL B/C IT WAS A NEWS ARTICLE!!!!!!!!!!!! Please contact me and let me know what was wrong with the statement/opinion that I made to the post. My post was unapproved and I think that was wrong. If you still believe I'm in the wrong please let me know why??

                                      

(VSG)  HW, 346 SW, 341 CW 176.2 GW, 165  kiss

USAF Wife
on 6/20/12 12:04 am
It sounds as if someone "mommy button reported" your comment.

You will more than likely never get a reply from OH staffers because they just send out the generic no no bad girl message and will not give you any direct response. You'll just tagged for heavy moderation if you pursue the issue.
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SW 270lbs GW 150lbs CW Losing Pregancy Weight Maintenance goal W 125-130lbs


acbbrown
on 6/20/12 12:06 am - Granada Hills, CA
 It's not personal. It's a generic message they send out a lot it seems...

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jacreasy
on 6/20/12 12:07 am
VSG on 04/23/12
 Its really  BULL-****!

                                      

(VSG)  HW, 346 SW, 341 CW 176.2 GW, 165  kiss

I_Sd8_em
on 6/20/12 12:26 am
Yeah, you're trying to live in the old America where free speech was a given. Now you live in the country of PC! How dare you point out the obvious! LOL! You basically said what several docotrs have said about this kind of surgery. When you remove one vice or excess in their life people often rely on another. I don't see it as an attack. But my PC filter is off and doesn't have an on switch.
jacreasy
on 6/20/12 12:33 am
VSG on 04/23/12
 Thanks!!!  I didnt think I was in the wrong.... ITS KIND OF FUNNY THOU! 

                                      

(VSG)  HW, 346 SW, 341 CW 176.2 GW, 165  kiss

(deactivated member)
on 6/20/12 12:45 am
You didn't do anything wrong, it is really hard to see what they could have been thinking.  I would just drop it and move on, nothing to gain here.  This was not a personal thing on your part or theirs.  I think they made a mistake in your case.  I bet they would even agree with my assessment. 
slimpickins5280
on 6/20/12 1:24 am - CO
I've been suprised that I've never gotten one of these. *knocks on wood*

I'd just leave it be. Fighting an autoresponse is like punching the air. You won't hit anything.

Keep contributing to the forum and ignore the complainers.

VSG 10/18/11      If you don't like the road you're walking, start paving another one.-Dolly Parton





 


 

tripmom02
on 6/20/12 1:47 am - NJ
 Hang out with me more, I get at least one a week (although usually from the Band board, not this one LOL). 

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slimpickins5280
on 6/20/12 3:10 am - CO
LOL - I know you do. It's because you dare to be happy and positive. Two big no-no's on that board. I lurk over there when I'm bored and need a good dose of snark.

Crap! Now I'm going to get one of those bot notices for saying that about the Band board dangit!

VSG 10/18/11      If you don't like the road you're walking, start paving another one.-Dolly Parton





 


 

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