Getting a little nervous

acbbrown
on 10/10/11 8:23 am - Granada Hills, CA
I freaked myself out this week a little. I have spent the last 16 months or so working on my emotional eating/stress eating, and I have to say, for me, I've done really well. I have survived a divorce and tons of work drama without resorting to food. In fact, since surgery, I have no had junk food of any kind, no soda, booze, chocolate, candy, ice cream, nothing. The worst thing ive eaten was a Special K bar :-p

In the last 4 months, I have not resorted to eating in times of stress. I have not tried to find comfort through my favorite foods. But I got a little freaked out  - this last week I had no appetite what so ever (very rare for me) and it was hard for me to eat enough. I realized that I was eating my meals as a way to distract myself from thinking about all my stress and issues. I didnt eat anything good - just my normal 2 oz of dense proteins, and i wasnt snacking, but I just felt a little weird about "when" i was eating. I didnt really get any comfort from my food, no endorphine rush, and I needed to eat, but I still feel a little uneasy about it. I know at this point it's probably nothing to worry about, I just cant shake the feeling that this is the first crack.

I know that in the rare times I have no appetite i need to be a little more structured with my eating just for health's sake so I can get my protein in for the day, but also to avoid this. Fortunately, 90% of the time, I am on a decent schedule so I dont have to worry about this.

Just a reminder to myself to be a little more aware. The difference between now and 16 months ago is my "all or nothing" attitude has changed. I no longer feel like im doomed with one little mis-step along the way. I'm still going strong :)

www.sexyskinnybitch.wordpress.com - my journey to sexy skinny bitch status

11/16/12 - Got my Body by Sauceda - arms, Bl/BA, LBL, thigh lift. 


HW 420/ SW 335 /CW 200    85 lbs lost pre-op / 135 post op
  
~~~~Alison~~~~~

 

NewStart145
on 10/10/11 8:32 am - GA
That's great you are able to control what you eat.  What are you doing to overcome stressful eating?  Rignt now, I am dealing with some stressful events and I don't want to start eating the wrong foods.
Ms. Poker Face
on 10/10/11 8:57 am
Alison - you've done great and have so much to be proud of.  Is it possible that this isn't the first crack... but rather the new you?  Without much thought, you chose protein, kept to 2oz, and did well.  Could this be intuitive eating?  Maybe this is what success looks like, even in the face of lots of stress?

Either way, I think you've had a major victory by not turning to bad foods so it's worth celebrating!  If it still truly worries you, then the awareness you mentioned is probably a good idea.

Keep on keeping on!

 

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acbbrown
on 10/10/11 9:02 am - Granada Hills, CA
I am very proud of myself - I know I have come a long ways. I just had to step back for a minute. One of my biggest struggles is always complacency so I just have to continually work at it n

www.sexyskinnybitch.wordpress.com - my journey to sexy skinny bitch status

11/16/12 - Got my Body by Sauceda - arms, Bl/BA, LBL, thigh lift. 


HW 420/ SW 335 /CW 200    85 lbs lost pre-op / 135 post op
  
~~~~Alison~~~~~

 

acbbrown
on 10/10/11 8:58 am - Granada Hills, CA
It's not an easy process, but for almost a year, I asked my time, every single time that I ate, "am I hungry, or am I tired, stressed, angry, happy or bored?". I logged and journaled my food as well as my feelings. Once I ID my reasons whyi ate, I could control them.

I stopped keeping trigger foods in the house, and now I don't keep any snacky or easy, convenient foods in my house. If I really want to eat, I have to cook or prepare it. Makes me think twice about why I'm eating.

www.sexyskinnybitch.wordpress.com - my journey to sexy skinny bitch status

11/16/12 - Got my Body by Sauceda - arms, Bl/BA, LBL, thigh lift. 


HW 420/ SW 335 /CW 200    85 lbs lost pre-op / 135 post op
  
~~~~Alison~~~~~

 

KikiRox85
on 10/10/11 11:43 am - CA
I feel you girly... It took me 4 months postop to FINALLY get into a groove where my head and sleeve were insync. Im using my tool now and not letting my head hunger get the best of me.
I totally get what you said about "the first crack." In the past I'de hit the first crack then it snowballed into something uncontrollable. But now its different. Now I feel empowered and know that I can do this. I will get there. Goal is definitely in the future.
Keep Rocking the Sleeve
Take Care
Kristen

  
DrHollywood
on 10/10/11 4:36 pm - Harbor City, CA
The Gift is Awareness.   Keep on Keeping On GF.  Your doing Awesome!
Thank you for sharing, I can relate.  Keep working through what comes up for you.
Oh and if your not eating....  good for you....  because one day it just may return.
Keep it low and you will succeed as your are.  I admire your recovery.
Huuuugs

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