**** happens!
You know people, complications happen! What doesn't kill us, it only makes us stronger! I was one of those positive people right to the moment of surgery then I was scared out of my pants. I didn't want to disappoint anyone by backing out. I went through hell and back the first year. But, I made it and it has made me a stronger person!.. People tell me I'm too calm. I say "NO"...When you're knocking on deaths doors. You tend to live life a tad differently. I don't sweat the petty stuff!...
Just go into surgery as prepared and you can be confident in. We all don't need to be surgical savvy. If the inevitable is going to happen, there's no stopping it. Have faith...And well...**** happens even when it means our lives. But, we get through it.
Hugs
Donna
Leaky sleeve survivor!!! 2008/2009 ~ 5'7"~ 42F Bougie