Tired...long post

tshabazz1967
on 6/25/11 10:27 am
 Ms. Shell I'm praying for you and I know that everything will be ok. You will knock those 40lbs off in no time. I want to that you for these words today because they have truly helped me too. 
Ms Shell
on 6/27/11 3:27 am - Hawthorne, CA
I'm glad the timing of my words helped you as much as all your love and support is helping me!

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

tshabazz1967
on 6/25/11 10:28 am
 Sorry, it should have read  Thank you for your words.
Ms Shell
on 6/27/11 3:31 am - Hawthorne, CA
Hello my newly sleeved sister!!  In the last few weeks of being back on WW I am using the points.  I am also trying to walk more.  I do good and then fall off or stop.  It's a cycle I'm fighting to get off.

I had OCD the first 3 years and then bam this year (since October) I just didn't want to do it anymore.  I didn't want to cook.  I wanted to eat "crap."  My restriction is GREAT.  My good meals are balance but on those moments when I eat "crap" insert ANY carb (except bread and rice) I can eat a **** load and feel almost NO restriction.  So yes in FOLLOWING that rule I'm great...it's when my head doesn't want to play anymore that it's a problem.

I'm fighting my way back and being accountalbe on here helps

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

Still Fawn
on 6/27/11 5:59 am - SIERRA MADRE, CA
Aw Shell.. I am late to the party because I disconnected for a weekend in the woods with the fam.. but I am glad I came back and saw this post, because you need support, and you have always been there for everyone else.. I know how hard this seems right now, BUT YOU CAN DO THIS! You are one of the strongest and most grounded women I know, and you are realistic in your goals and you can reach them. YES- you are beautiful and sexy right now.. but YES you can kick those last 40 in the ass if you want to. I love ya and I am here for you!

 I am still loving life with my sleeve! Been maintaining at or below goal for over 4 years!
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."   - Ramona L. Anderson

Ms Shell
on 6/27/11 6:08 am - Hawthorne, CA
Well first thing first in this response.  I am LOVING the hair and the RED lipstick in your avatar pic!!

Thank you so much Fawn but just being you and allowing me to be me.  Yes kicking those pounds...one meal (literally) at a time!!

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

Still Fawn
on 6/27/11 6:19 am - SIERRA MADRE, CA
Thanks Shell!  That was after my pin up shoot, lol.. I never wear red, but maybe I need to start!  LMAO... I burnt some of my hair camping, so a new sassy short do is a-coming!

Being you is such a fabulous thing anyway, so why shouldn't you?  Ha ha- please let me know if I can help you in any way..

 I am still loving life with my sleeve! Been maintaining at or below goal for over 4 years!
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."   - Ramona L. Anderson

RavenLunatic
on 6/27/11 6:04 am - Deltona, FL
I couldnt have said it better..  You now,  Im sure 90% of us feel the same way.. Its a hard ..."life long batte"...We all know our WLS was NOT a Magic pill, Just simply a tool to help us in ONE AREA. Its the damned Evil Brain, that is conspireing against us !! We all Ride the excuss train Daily.. This is where i think The psych. End of the counciling would have been nice. (at least  in my case )
AS I write this response.. I am munching on a Snack bag of doritos !!!   JEEZ-O  SEE !!!!! Its Not about Self denial at all.  It the food choices we make.. In an ideal world,.. We would have a Little person in our pockets, Steering us away from danger..  BUT.. For now.. all we have is each other.. and that will have to do..  YOU CAN DO THIS.. look what you .. ( ALL OF US ) have done in the months and years before..TODAY.. "Not tomorrow" Make better food choices and Times.. And Physically and mentally....." JUST SAY NO !! "  And Its a SLow process.. The weight will fall off again.. Just gotta be Comitted to the cause !
Cheers !
Randy "RavenLunatic" Cooke
Ms Shell
on 6/27/11 6:13 am - Hawthorne, CA
I like the little person idea...holding onto my wallet so I can't buy certain items while i'm out lol.  Thanks Raven...good to see you still lurking around

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

Ms Shell
on 6/27/11 6:15 am - Hawthorne, CA
Ok I could have sworn I responded to you...but in any event.  Yes my restriction DOES work but like with anything I know (in my head) that I could eat say an hour or so later and NOT follow the rules.  My struggles right now are more mental then physical...

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

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