FRUSTRUATED!!!!! Sorry alittle long
I am so frustrated!!!! One of my co workers who I love and who has had the lapband surgery and recommended me to my surgeon is saying mean and hurtful things to me. She keeps saying you are going to fail, your not going to lose weight, I don't understand why you are eating at this stage blah blah blah! My dr and nut have put me on mushies and basically it is anything I can mush with a fork. So I eat egg salad tuna fish chicken sald, eggs, mashed potatoes, cheese, etc. Well my co worker tells me I am not motivated to lose weight and if I was I wouldn't eat anything except liquids!!!! Just because you did nothing but liquids 2 yrs ago and lost all your weight the unhealthy way doesn't mean I am going to do the same thing! All she does now is throw up after she eats anything. She literally made me cry today. I am following everything that my dr and nut tell me and damn it I have lost 40 lbs in 1 month not sure about inches but I think I am doing great. She knows nothing about the sleeve! I so just wanted to punch her in the mouth but I walked away and now she keeps calling me! What do I do or say now?!?!?! HELP!!!!!!!
To be honest if it was me I'd tell her to mind her f*cking business, but I'm a b*tch. LOL Good luck with everything!!
I'm here if you need support or someone to chat with!
~Mandi
Go on the offensive:
Say that her Lap Band is a dangerous archaic foreign object in her body. And the only foreign body you would tolerate in YOUR body damn sure better vibrate or be named Antonio Banderes.
I would ask her why her lap band and eating habits make her puke all the time...Tell her you are very concerned for her as the failure rate and complications of the band are terrible!
I would explain to her that your WLS and Dr. recommended nutritional guidelines are different then hers. So educate yourself before opening that hole under your nose!
And if letting her know that you have lost 40 lbs already isn't enough....
Punch that ***** right in the mouth!
Good luck
Jason