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Kathie

"Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself." Anais Nin
Wow, I did not know that the stitches last up to three months. That is interesting. Did he check the gall bladder? I had my out years ago, but I have read that some people have had that issue after surgery. That pain is very similar. It is in the stomach as well as the upper/mid back. Especially if I ate a fattier meat.
I can only eat 1/3 cup of food at a time. I can eat four ozs of cottage cheese because it is mushy type food. I can now eat a few blackberries with it, too. But meat, like ham, I can eat a few small pieces and nothing else. The best meal for me is hard boiled egg, canned chicken packed in water, and fat free mayo in the food processor. I have enjoyed that, and now with a few ff saltines.
Good luck to you.
Happy Holidays and I hope they find the problem source of your pain. Its no fun.
Take care.
As far as eating, I eat lots of Protien. He said I was eating correctly...I'm not measuring my food, but I think I eat about 1 cup of protein (Ground Beef 93/7)...
Happy Holidays! and hope your pain gets better...
I was reading that eating certain foods, can cause the intestine to move or spasm which can aggrivate scar tissue. I also had my gallbladder removed lap in 2007 and noticed that high fat foods cause me the most issues.
When I had the surgery, I truly was alone, since this surgery then was a last resort for morbidly obese people with extreme weight related health issues.
I was barely 17 and had no such health issues, but I was depressed to the point of non-functioning so they opted to go through with it at my request.
Now, it's much more common to see, but whenever I find out that "so and so" had her stomach stapled, I don't run up to so and so and introduce myself as her sister in WLS. Why? Because, I do not look like a person who has gone through such surgery should look. I am fat--not haven't left the house for 2 years fat..i'm fairly healthy, functional, married, kids, house, etc. but if I told a new WLS patient that I had done it, I imagine it might be discouraging for them. Plus, it's really kind of embarassing.
When I have complained about my weight to close friends, they have suggested.."Have you thought about an operation? A lapband or something?"
Poor things, they only want to be helpful--I hate to see their faces when I say.."Oh, yeah..I did that already" What's your next suggestion?
Someone was talking about never eating a banana, etc. This is my experience. Soft, fatty foods go down the easiest, and it was not long before I had developed extremely poor eating habits even if I was no longer overeating.
I have very expensive dental issues but it's not from vomiting or acid. Mine is from constantly and obsessively chewing ice for 2 and a half years when I was suffering from iron deficiency Anemia and didn't know it. A common symptom of anemia is Pica, or a constant compulsion to chew on items that are non-nutritional. Ice is a common one. I have cracked most of my back molars and required root canals. I have had to replace several crowns at 1000 bucks a pop.
Thank God, the compulsion for ice stopped when the anemia was treated.
I plan to see a bariatric surgeon so I can finally get some insight into what my body looks like inside and why I suffer so much. Sometimes, the acid burns so horribly that I feel like I will pass out from the pain. None of the medications offers total relief from this.
I fear the pressure of having another surgery. I don't want to have my stomach restricted to the size of a newborn again. It's not natural and it taught me nothing. If I never lose another pound, I would be okay with it. I just cannot stand this pain, constant belching and the nausea that comes from nowhere at the worst possible time.
I want to be healthy and fit, but I am not convinced that a person missing 85 percent of their stomach can be healthy and/or fit. Also, I contracted a MRSA from an outpatient brachioplasty (batwings--for the uninitiated among us)several years ago and I feared for my life. I had to have IV Vancomycin for 4 hours a day for 3 weeks followed by 3 more weeks of Bactrim before I fully recovered. My infection was so bad that my newly tightened upper arms burst open at the incision seam only 2 days postop. My hands became so swollen with infection that they looked like Popeye's. I was extremely ill and vowed to never, ever go under the knife again unless it was truly a life and death matter. I guess that is my dilemma.
Thanks for the support, old-timers. It's nice to know you are out there!
Courtney
I've seen so many gastroenterologists that I became familiar to them like an old friend. I've had ulcers and throat lesions from all the stomach acids and my teeth look, and feel, horrible, from all the missing enamel which cannot be replaced. I am currently in need of $3500 worth of dental work... that's the part my dental plan DOESN'T cover.
However, that will do me no good without a revision first. My bariatric surgeron is going to attempt an Anastomosis between the walls of the staples. Not easy considering that it is an area prone to low blood supply. If that doesn't work... and he says he will be able to tell while in the OR... I will have a RNY Bypass.
Like the poster before me, I recommend a referral to a GOOD bariatric surgeon. Nevermind how far you have to travel to get to one. Do your research and find one that accepts your insurance. Get your referral and make a written list of ALL your problems and all the meds you've taken over the years. Go in with you head held high and don't accept "no" as an answer. Chances are, you won't have to anyway. I went in to my surgeons office ready for a fight. It never occurred. He ordered an
upper GI for 3 days later and was there when the procedure was done... ask for this... so he/she can see EXACTLY what is going on. I took three small sips of barium before he and the radiologist both knew the problem. The area around my band is closing with scar tissue and normal tissue growth. The passage was closed all but a small drip.
I'm having surgery this Monday afternoon, 20 December. I hope to be home for Christmas but it's doubtful. My surgery will be invasive which leaves a greater chance of bleeding and leakage, not to mention the pain. I told my surgeon that I just want to feel normal again. I haven't eaten a banana is 8 years. Or bit into an apple. Or eaten an orange. Or steak. And chicken has been a big no-no since '99. I took the easy way out and ate what went down the easiest... junk food. Chips disolve without coming back up.. hence my weight gain. I'm sure you know what I mean.
So, seriously, locate that bariatric surgeron and get that referral. It's the best place to start. I'm just upset that I waited so long to get to the right doctor. A gastroenterologist can tell you the problem, but he won't fix it. So don't waste your time there.
Many prayers and blessings that you find the right doctor... and soon.
God Bless !!
~~Maggie
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Tom

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