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“You've been eating really well, but your family is going out to dinner this weekend. Here's how to order up a happy ending.”
When eating out, it's best if you know in advance where you'll be going. Many restaurants have websites with their menus posted. Some go so far as to give nutrition information - even if it's limited. If your restaurant doesn't have fat and calorie info at least, look over the menu and decide what items you think would be the wisest choice for you. If you are unsure, call the restaurant and ask if they can make recommendations. Try to call well ahead or after lunch and dinner to get the best customer service. Simply knowing what's going to be served up will allow you to enjoy your night out without undoing your progress.
“You just started a new diet and they claim you don't really need to exercise to lose weight. Here's the warm, fuzzy truth.”
If you eat fewer calories than you burn, you will lose weight. So, technically, you can lose weight without exercise. But, here's the good news: you can lose more weight AND you'll be healthier if you DO exercise. Since only eating and exercising turn on your metabolism to burn fat, just eating less isn't the best solution. Pair a good eating plan WITH a good workout plan and you'll have the right formula for success. Remember, "dieting" may make you thinner, but it won't tone your muscles, give you stamina, or improve the whole you.
“You try but sometimes food temptations just seem to call to you. Here's how to hear no evil.”
You're in the living room just minding your own business when you hear the cookie jar's lid rattle. A small voice calls to you. It's sweet and inviting and you know you will be lured in by its seductive ways. Time to get up. No, not to go in there, but to do something, anything, that will distract you. Do some jumping jacks while reciting a favorite poem, run up and down the steps ten times while compiling your to-do list, flip on some music and dance around. After your little distraction, you may feel more like continuing with an activity and forget all about listening to evil chatter.
“You want to eat healthier but your family wants their old favorites. Here's how to comfort them.”
Comfort foods don't have to be banished from your menu - at least not completely. You may not eat them quite as often, however, when the family is clamoring for their old favorites, you can take it on as a challenge. Be creative by making swaps they may not even notice. Try low-fat cheeses in lasagna, reduce the amount of butter in mac-n-cheese, replace some of the fat in cakes with applesauce, and use olive oil instead of butter for hash browns. Even eliminating a few calories, saturated fat, or excess carbs can make a difference in your waistline without altering the taste of family faves.
“You work in an office that leaves you feeling drained. Here's how to get filled up.”
There are a lot of reasons your workplace can deflate you. Just being in an office with no windows, the flicker of florescent lights can leave you feeling gray and unmotivated. On your breaks, getting outside can lift your spirits. Another trick is to feel some ownership in your space. Can you bring a little lamp with a bright shade? With the new energy-efficient bulbs it can use as little as 3 watts of power so it won't add to your employer's overhead too much. Don't forget a plant, pictures of your family, and a personal piece of art if possible. The best, if you can listen to music that you enjoy, you'll really start to feel energized. Talk to your boss and see what you can do to feel more motivated and more productive - something she/he shouldn't have a problem with.
“You feel really motivated and you're excited about all the possibilities. Here's how to cash in before you cash out.”
We all know that, like money, motivation comes and motivation goes. Embarking on something new, learning about something exciting, and realizing that things are possible for you is exciting. While all that excitement is empowering, unless you take the reigns and giddy-up your motivation could be all for nothing. Take motivation as a kick in the pants and "do" instead of simply dream, plan, or reflect. Once you get some work under your belt, you're far more likely to continue as results of motivation breed future motivation.
“You keep setting goals you don't reach. Here's how to break the tape.”
If you could just replay the movie of your resolutions (goals you were going to achieve) month after month, year after year, odds are you haven't made a plan for success. If you are going to do ANYTHING in life, you have to make time to work on it. You probably have a routine for getting up, going to work, eating meals, and when you plop down to watch your favorite TV show. The things you want to accomplish need to be scheduled just the same (or maybe instead of). If you REALLY want to write that book, exercise, or learn to speak Swahili, you will succeed when you take time on a regular basis to work at it. End of story. You can choose to schedule the time or not.
“You plan to work out after work but you just want to chill. Here's how to heat things up.”
It's a fact that if you're burned out, you will pick the easiest choice available - good or bad, easy is what you'll go for. So, if you're typically used up and worn out after work, planning a workout then isn't going to work. You're more likely to hit the drive through and eat your easy meal doing something low-key like watching TV. Instead, plan your meal ahead (have salad fixin's ready to go in the fridge, or put something in the crock pot in the morning). Go home, eat your dinner and veg for a bit. Once you've recharged, then head to the club and you'll be ready to give 100% again.
“You joined the club to prepare for a special event and plan to jump ship once the big day arrives. Here's how to stay aboard.”
Getting in shape is, unfortunately, not a one-time deal. You can't store up fitness like you can fat (no, life is not fair). As soon as you stop for a few days things are literally going to start going south. The only way to prevent that and to have a toned, well functioning physic is to exercise regularly every week. Set sail on a routine that can last you a lifetime.
“You want to break out of your shell to have a renewed life. Here's how to make a serious crack.”
Changing your life is easier said then done, but you can do it. Once you've defined problem areas that need addressing, making a plan and starting slowly may be the difference between success and failure. You need time to make sure changes fit your lifestyle. For example, you may try to schedule your work out after work with the idea you'll go home to make a healthy dinner for you or your family. If you find you are completely spent after your workout, caving into the lure of more convenient (and unhealthy) foods may happen too often. You need to have the flexibility to regroup. Perhaps that isn't the best time to workout, or maybe you need to prepare dinners ahead or get someone else in the family to handle dinner. Breaking out of your old life and into a new one takes work. By working around obstacles, you'll be able to battle your way through that tough shell.