Obsession with fat??!!!!!

Yea. You are probably right. But why do I always have to make the sacrifices?

Hmmm, I cannot answer that for ya. Wish I could. Sounds like a big heart-to-heart with your hubby is needed. If it is an impasse perhaps seeing a counselor together would help? I'm a firm believer in not letting things fester too long. Been there, done that in relationships in the past. Not doing that this time. Again, good luck and best wishes, Kathy

When I first read what you wrote, Paula, I felt this was a relationship issue. I hesitated to respond for fear of directing my own feelings toward someone else's situation. We all have different ways of relating to spouses and others. I agree on the heart-to-heart, or if that fails, counseling. What you do or don't do will be determined by your discomfort level. Good luck with this, Lois