Relationship questions... (long)

Thank you, Leland. You make so much sense. I really appreciate your help! Stacey

I realized after I posted my long response that the thrust of your posting was slightly different from what I first thought. When I get that little voice in my head I listen to it. I never act on it right away, but I never assume it is silly or that I shouldn't pay attention to it. The little voice has served me well over the years. It usually turns me toward a different path I should take. I treat the little voice like the part of me that gets through my assumptions and old ways of being--so that it can tell me something important. Hope that doesn't sound creepy. Lois