**UPDATE FRI***Mama - (Pat - Kat's Mom)

Kitty Kat
on 3/5/09 4:23 am, edited 3/5/09 7:18 pm - Richmond, VA
Good am,

Last pm we visited Mom. It happened that my sister, our dad & I were there at the same time. In the later pm my sister & I talked extensively with Mom's docs. I
ts confirmed Mom has had a mini stroke. At this point, her doc has indicated that she needs to see this as a sign of things to come if she doesn't begin to absorb that she's got to take better care of herself. There are some other underlying issues which are being addressed. This am she is to have a heart test done to check for blockages there as well. we are optimistic yet stand guarded until we meet with the docs and set Mom in motion with some specific treatments and put her in touch with docs outside the hospital to help. What I can say at this point is I pray that has been a wake up call. Not just for Mom either. Please keep praying. Mom needs support. Thanks.

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Good pm,

I am posting for my Mom (Pat aka Kat's Mom).

On Tues I rang 911 for an ambulance to take her to the ER which shortly following she was admitted to the hospital for possible stroke. She's had some paralysis although we have not confirmed how much, how long it may last, etc. 

At this point, we still have many questions with slow coming answers. She's had a gambit of tests done and we're beginning to learn more about what's happening with her. The docs are working on ruling out things while having indicated some issues that we are addressing, treating & coming up with a plan of action to tackle. Just a bit ago, we learned an MRI that was done last pm is "negative" however, the neurologist will not rule out a "mini stroke" and/or other questionable issues at this time.

We are asking for prayers for my mom. If anyone would like to send well wishes and/or talk with Mom please PM me & we'll talk offline.

All best!





Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to Kayla & Nora
Sober since 25th Aug 07 
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Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.



~~Theresa Marie~~
on 3/5/09 4:40 am - Closing in on SkinnyVille, VA
Oh I am soooo sorry this is going on. I am hoping and praying that they find out the diagnosis and that she has a speedy and uneventful recovery. She is a strong woman and a fighter and I am sure will push the drs to speed things along.

I will definitely pray for her and ya'll will be in my thoughts. If you need anything, let me know! Please give her my best and let her know that I am thinking about her!

Hugs,
Theresa Marie
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Pat F.
on 3/5/09 8:11 pm - Richmond, VA
Thank you Theresa and I appreciate the prayers and throughts very much. This is a very trying time and I will make it though with the love of my family and friends. I am still at the hospital and they are letting me us there computer. Hope that things are going better for you and your heart.


          
Tam
on 3/5/09 5:34 am - Richmond, VA
Many prayers for Pat and the whole family.  I am here if you need me...anytime of the day or night and Steve is home during the day, too.  I have faith and she is a strong woman (you had to get some of it from her, right???) and we will keep the prayers coming.  Daddy, Steve, Kara and I all send our love!

Tammy C

down 260+ pounds and loving life more than ever!!!
proud  mom to Kara 12-08-1994 and our newest addition Claire Makenna born 03-26-09 weighing 6 lbs 13 ounces and 19.25 inches long and very healthy.  happily dating...i honestly never knew it could be this good!  there is that special Guy for everyone out there...either you already have him or you will find him when He is ready for it! 

open RNY 04-25-2005

Life could not get any better than this!

Pat F.
on 3/5/09 8:15 pm - Richmond, VA

Thank you and Steve for coming by it really did help and now to finish finding out what is going on and to get better and this is also giving some time to think and I want to get better and to live a long life. I am not going to give up like my dad did and will not let myself be a cripple because of this. I have to much to live for.  I am feeling better this morning. I am using the hospital computer so that I can check on some things so I though I would stop by here for a minute.



          
Tam
on 3/5/09 9:28 pm - Richmond, VA
Glad you popped in!  It was wonderful to visit last night...and we will be back as soon as we can for another visit, too.  Yes, you do have a lot to live for and this is a good wake up call.  I will help you get back on track any way I can...we are all here to support you.  Remember...the first step is to want to get better.  If you don't want it then nothing you start will stick.  God has given you another chance...run with it, girl.  Make the necessary changes while you can.  Love ya!

Tammy C

down 260+ pounds and loving life more than ever!!!
proud  mom to Kara 12-08-1994 and our newest addition Claire Makenna born 03-26-09 weighing 6 lbs 13 ounces and 19.25 inches long and very healthy.  happily dating...i honestly never knew it could be this good!  there is that special Guy for everyone out there...either you already have him or you will find him when He is ready for it! 

open RNY 04-25-2005

Life could not get any better than this!

lysb
on 3/5/09 6:51 am - Alexandria, VA
prayers coming...hugs to all, lys

 

Pat F.
on 3/5/09 8:17 pm - Richmond, VA
Thank you Lysb and they are welcomed. I hope to be home today I hope and then I will be able to be on here more. I will or Kat will keep you all updated on me.


          
cathya
on 3/5/09 7:03 am - Orlando, FL
Kat,
Please tell you mother that I am praying that God will give wisdom to the doctors caring for her and peace for you and her other family members as you put together a plan for her care.

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Worry looks around, Sorry looks back, Faith looks UP...

Cathy Alphin
OH Certified Support Group Leader & Coach
Orlando, FL

Pat F.
on 3/5/09 8:22 pm - Richmond, VA
Thank you Cathya I really appreciate it. At least I have the feeling back in my left side and am able to walk with a cane but I hope to get rid of that and if not I will deal with it. I never through that I would get like this and this is just a warning to me to get myself better and do what I am supposed to do. Just so you know I am still at the hospital but will let you know when I get home. I really love coming here and seeing and hearing how everyone is doing. When I came in the bed scale said I weighted 241 well yesterday I got on the other scale and they read 232.2 so yea I have lost the weight I gained plus 2 lbs since a week ago. Talk to you later.


          
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