My families decision....

Tam
on 1/13/09 4:59 am - Richmond, VA
We tried our best as a family to make it easy...not sure she will accept but at least we tried and we can live with our decision!

Tammy C

down 260+ pounds and loving life more than ever!!!
proud  mom to Kara 12-08-1994 and our newest addition Claire Makenna born 03-26-09 weighing 6 lbs 13 ounces and 19.25 inches long and very healthy.  happily dating...i honestly never knew it could be this good!  there is that special Guy for everyone out there...either you already have him or you will find him when He is ready for it! 

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caroline2622
on 1/13/09 6:02 am - Woodbridge , VA
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I know this is hard on you.    You and your husband are doing the best for your family.
Hopefully she will think about her actions.    Good luck
 
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Tam
on 1/13/09 9:07 pm - Richmond, VA
Hard, yes but easier knowing that we are doing what we can to try and fix this.  Leaving it all up to her is the hardest part because she is not a rational thinker!

Tammy C

down 260+ pounds and loving life more than ever!!!
proud  mom to Kara 12-08-1994 and our newest addition Claire Makenna born 03-26-09 weighing 6 lbs 13 ounces and 19.25 inches long and very healthy.  happily dating...i honestly never knew it could be this good!  there is that special Guy for everyone out there...either you already have him or you will find him when He is ready for it! 

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lysb
on 1/13/09 6:49 am - Alexandria, VA

Tam - i think you made the right decision, it sounds very well thought out, whatever the outcome, I hope HER decision will be good for you all.  Lys

 

Tam
on 1/13/09 9:08 pm - Richmond, VA
Thanks, Lys!  At least this way she can not blame anything on us...the ball is 100% in her court!  I am praying that she realizes the severity of this and does the right thing for all involved.  Knowing that we have done as much as we have puts my mind at ease...knowing it is HER decision now!

Tammy C

down 260+ pounds and loving life more than ever!!!
proud  mom to Kara 12-08-1994 and our newest addition Claire Makenna born 03-26-09 weighing 6 lbs 13 ounces and 19.25 inches long and very healthy.  happily dating...i honestly never knew it could be this good!  there is that special Guy for everyone out there...either you already have him or you will find him when He is ready for it! 

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Life could not get any better than this!

prissy25
on 1/13/09 7:20 am - Barboursville, VA
Tammy  its the best thing for you to do by letting her make the choice. Life is to short and if she chooses to miss out then thats her doing and not yours. Best of luck and Ill be praying for you guys! Looking forward to seeing you all soon...
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Tam
on 1/13/09 9:10 pm - Richmond, VA
OOHHH...I can't wait to see you!  It has been way too long, girl!  Thanks for the support.  Leaving it up to her seemed like the rational and sane thing to do.  We laid out what we expected and what/why we would not tolerate certain things and now it is 100% up to her to handle.  Hopefully she will do the right thing!  I will keep ya'll posted!

Tammy C

down 260+ pounds and loving life more than ever!!!
proud  mom to Kara 12-08-1994 and our newest addition Claire Makenna born 03-26-09 weighing 6 lbs 13 ounces and 19.25 inches long and very healthy.  happily dating...i honestly never knew it could be this good!  there is that special Guy for everyone out there...either you already have him or you will find him when He is ready for it! 

open RNY 04-25-2005

Life could not get any better than this!

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